Me and other women?

Ok, my man the one who I love, lives miles and miles away from me, yet we're waiting for a time when we'll get back together, we talk every night. So me and him have agreed on an "Open" relationship. If some girl comes by he will either screw her or get with her and yet he talks to me about me becoming his wife in the future... I don't get it. He's in love with me and I know it cause a few times I would be like I don't want to continue this. it wont work out, but he'll be like we've come so far without each other (physically) when we meet we're gonna have to get married because of the obstacles we've over comed. Yet he asks me if I'm ok with him sleeping with another woman (if she comes by) and that sorta makes me feel weird I don't like the thought of him being touched by other woman... He's also ok with me being with another man sleeping etc.. yet he says he'll still love me and he'll still be there for me, to be his girl... That's weird? I honestly won't sleep or be with another man, cause I love him so much and I'll wait, and I've told him that I don't like that idea, if you sleep with another woman then we should just be friends and forget our love. I dont know if I said the right thing.. but he's like even if he sleeps with another woman he'll still love me.. I dont know I would feel weird being with him like that. He's a virgin and he does wants to lose it to me. But if we don't meet soon enough, he's like he's gonna lose it to some stranger or some other woman like that. I'm thinking cause of the lust he has in him he can't deny his desires... but still we talk every night about love and he future and what not. What do you all think about this weird ish? Like I dont wanna stick around and then get my heart broken.

We're holding on to each other until we meet again, but all of that happening in between is like a bit annoying... like should I let our open relationship have him being with other women... would that effect our relationship later on? cause I really don't feel comfortable with him doing that yet I can't control him either like a tyrant. Me however am like the more conserved type I wait for the right guy type of thing... so I won't worry about losing my v and being with another guy cause in my mind he's settled.

hmm I don't think open relationships work.. If You want to be with someOne, then that is the only person.. I know if my gf told me she wanted an open relationship, but still loves me and wants to be with me, I wouldn't be able to continue in the relationship and I know she wouldn't be happy with me sleeping with other women either, even though she lives in Florida and I live in the UK. I don't want to 'sleep' with anyone other than her and just look forward to the times we do get to spend with each other.. I think open relationships will lead to heartache.. that's my opinion.. if 2 people are in love why would they want to sleep with someone else?

I agree with you 100%. It is wrong and weird. If you love each other, you should only want each other in every way. Sex is personal. This is just me, but I really think it is wrong. I think you should either let go, or tell him straight its either just you, or not at all. But that is just my opinion, but I really feel strong about this.

Exactly, I can't stand him doing that... I dont want him to be with other women while he wants to marry later on... I know that it wouldn't be right, it's in his mind to think that way... and it can't be like that. Thanks!

ok let me just say that open relantionship are not 4 everyone and they do cause real big problems I know from my personal life and my advice is not to do it tell him no way if that is what he wants to do then tell him that you will have to leave him for you can not trust him and if you dont have trust you dont have anything trust me and if he cant want for you well the sorry honey sounds like he dont have as much love for you as you do him and he dont have much respect for you either just my opinion.