homosexual friend

alright, so a good friend of mine claims to be bi or les or whatever... but she told me that she has a crush on me.. and i used to be bi, curious, whatever.. but i don't feel the same way anymore... i don't like girls, but i don't know what to tell her to help her get over me.. i don't want to completely break her heart, i want to help her in all ways possible but i don't know how to begin.
does anyone know???

Just tell her, You went through a stage where you thought You were bi, but it was just curiousity.. You know now that You want to be with males and not females.. She'll understand, it may be difficult for her to stop feeling that way about You, but she will.. I used to fancy my best mate, we went through the same kind of thing, because I am les and she is bi, but prefers men.. It hurt for a while, but didn't change our friendship.. I just moved on and she will too

Well, if she is a good friend as you claim, you should tell her and she would understand and still be friends with you. It may be awkward at first. But you can get over the tension. Tell her that you will still be friends with her, you just went through a phase and are not interested in her that way. I hope you work it all out. =]

-Jenna.