guys + girls = trouble

see I have known this dude for four years... we have both liked each other or so I tought... until recently he quit being my freind I couldnt figure out what I have done... comes to find out he found out I used to cut myself and he want talk to me he says I have changed I like him to much not to be freinds with him.... it hurts to much
do yall have any suggestions that I could use to prove to him that it is still me

yeah he found out and now wants nothing to do with me I was there when he found out but he hasnt talked to me since

aww I'm sure he will realise that although he found out something about You he didn't know, it doesn't change the fact that You are good friends.. He probably just feels a little upset and doesn't know how to handle it, once he has a little time to think about things he will probably come to You and apologise for being so insensitive. hope everything gets better between the 2 of You soon x

Thanx yall r all a big help Luvs yall