OMG SOMEONE HELP...Guy advice needed.

Ok...Well, I have a friend who recently asked out one of my best friends..Then after like a week of them being together he told me that he loved me just like he loved her..Which is a lot..And he hasn't been talking to me lately..And I think he hates me.So I was wondering if you think he hates me or he just feels weird talking to me..Help please.

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I think maybe he is just confused.. If he loves Your friend and wants to make that work, he's probably just distancing himself so his feelings for You don't grow any stronger.. Once he gets his head straight, he'll probably pick up Your friendship.. If he told You he loves You, why would You now think he hates You?

^ i agree most defiantely one confused boy you got there, loves you and your best friend ... yeah seriously messed up kid there, if he does love you two (which i highly doubt) he's a complete moron for telling you because A) you could seriously mess up his chances with your friend B) should make you wonder: if he asked her out first does he really love you two the same? C) at 13 you don't even know what love is (i'm not sure it was even a word when i was 13) and if this guy thinks he loves you, you should realise how um... for lack of a better word akward he is

Yeah I agree with donna as well.

He probably said it, but decided to pick your friend, and now he is just pushing you away so he can try to make it work with your friend. It's harsh sounding, but I mean, it's not you like him anyways right? He's your friend, and he's dating your best friend. Plus Brian is right, he is an awkward guy, you can't love two different people at the same time, in the same way.

Take a deep breath....you're only 13! Enjoy your young years man!! Already guy problems?!? When you're older trust me...you will have ENOUGH of those! No need to start so early especially with a 13 year old boy who is probably 239453492 more confused than you...Enjoy your young years...they'll fly by....

He's 17..the same age as my boyfriend..And I'm wayy more mature than you think..I've been forced to grow up fast because of my home situation.[which i dont want to get into] but yea...thanx..I guess you can't really love 2 people in the same way..It just doesn't make sense to do that.

I agree with you, Angelina. I hate how people cheapen the word til it has no meaning.

Yeah, it's actually quite sad. They date so many people at a young age, and they tell every boyfriend/girlfriend they have that they 'love' them, but when it comes down to the end, they don't know what love is. They could never be able to find the true love that were to exist, because they gave it all away to the wrong people.

i thought i knew what love was at 14...but i was horribly mistaken. now i'm 16 and realized that i do know what love is. i was with a guy for 15 months...a year and 3 months...a great portion of my life. and now we're banned from each other because his parents are trying to re-live their lives through his. keeping us from each other so he doesnt get hurt. they dont support a long distance relationship. i dont know. i dont mean to bring my problems into this...it's just... i used the word "love" at 14...and realized i didnt know what i was talking about...until i actually felt it. now it's such a painful word. it has all the meaning in the world (just sometimes in a negative way...)

^ We've all made mistakes like that. It nothin to feel bad about once you've realized your mistakes and have moved on from them.

The thing is, what's gonna happen when you use the word love to everyone, but then when you really, truly ARE in love, what word are you gonna use to express it? "Love" will have already become so old that it probubly won't be as exciting anymore. Has anybody else ever thought of that?