How do say to him/her: no

  • The Angel of Secrets
    18 years ago

    This guy or this girl is totally into you.
    You don't really feel like dating anyone at the moment.
    You tell him/her no, but she/he won't give up, and keeps trying.

    How do you tell him/her: no?

  • HOLLYWOODxBANGBANG
    18 years ago

    My ex boyfriend did that to me lol. It was horrible turning him down over and over again and then finally just saying yes. But, for your own good, don't say yes, don't go out with someone just because they won't give up.. Hope everything works out for you Dear. =]

    -Jenna.

  • Heather
    18 years ago

    Like poetess said just be blunt. Be blunt, but not mean about it. Just make sure you can get your point across, and don't word it so he/she will think they have a chance if they don't. Also if you really mean no, definetly do not say yes becuase you feel bad, or they won't stop. I did that with one of my ex boyfriends and it ended very badly (we pretty much can't stand to be in the same room together).

  • Bre
    18 years ago

    my friend right now is kinda going through that
    you see she is going out with this guy she thought she liked alot when they started dating he acted as if they weren't going out at all
    he hasn't kissed her or nothing
    nothing
    well she told me
    and she told this blabber mouth lauren this
    lauren told her boyfriend and he was mad
    he said he don't care
    but you could see he do
    then he kept holding on to me all i have to say is if you don't like a guy tell them that they will get over it eventually

  • HOLLYWOODxBANGBANG
    18 years ago

    I agree with Heather, if you do it out of sympathy, then it will wind up worse. If you don't have true feelings for them, don't be with them. I did the same mistake, and it was horrible.

    -Jenna.

  • HOLLYWOODxBANGBANG
    18 years ago

    "You tell him/her no, but she/he won't give up, and keeps trying."

    She has said no, he won't give up.

    -Jenna.

  • Free Spirit
    18 years ago

    Be like u aint single that u have somebody... something like that cuz ive been in situations like that, n they still dont leave u, show no interest or just be like i aint lookin.

  • SplitSided
    18 years ago

    everyone has to fall a couple times before they learn i know that if someone woulda gave in things woulda went downhill for me the way it happened to me was she told me to f_ck off and that was enough but now were like best friends and nothin more

  • Atomic
    18 years ago

    Him: Wanna go out with me?
    You: No.
    Him: Wanna go out with me?
    You: No.
    Him: Wanna go out with me?
    You: No.

    Do you see a pattern here, Miss?

    The key to this game is patience.

    Plus, he has more to say...

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