Perfect guy/girl?

  • Jenni Marie
    18 years ago

    What would be everyone's perfect ideal guy/girl? Characteristics, etc.

  • Darien
    18 years ago

    No one is perfect.

    But keep looking for them, with your high standards you wil never find love, and you don't deserve it. Everyone is flawed, and in a relationship, what makes it work, is accepting those flaws. No one will ever be close to perfect, so stop trying to find someone like that.

  • susan
    18 years ago

    yeah...true to that ^

    But we are perfect in God's eyes because he purposely created us different and unqiue. =)

  • Jenni Marie
    18 years ago

    Hmmm i guess no one is pefect, until you fall in love with them.

  • The Angel of Secrets
    18 years ago

    Well, the perfect guy, would be funny, smart, natural, eyes you can see the sea in, romatic, likes to read books, loves his family, loves me, likes to do the things I like, likes to watch movies, like chocolate, and good looking.
    But I also want him to have small faults, that may bug me, but I still love, like drinking right out of the milk thingy, or drools the da after a party, just things people find disgusting.. Makes him seem, you know, human.

  • Ashes of a Black Rose aka Night Child
    18 years ago

    O.O

    i SO agree with Darien. nobody's perfect. NOBODY. but really, the perfect person for me is one who is imperfect and okay with it, and doesnt try to be perfect. all he is is himself, and thats all i need him to be. that and a guy who can show me he loves me, and understands that i love him, not based on what we do together, but how i actually FEEL about him. and i had that. almost. but he didnt understand that i loved him. i just wish i could have shown him in a way he would understand.

  • ABrookeD
    18 years ago

    I agree. You can look for certain characteristics, but nobody is perfect. I don't have a perfect guy. I accept flaws because everyone has them. As long as you love the person for who they are, that's all that should matter. No matter how hard anyone tries, they can never acieve perfection.

  • Nicole Maree
    18 years ago

    I agree with Darien, no one is perfect but I think that there is one person that is suited for everyone and that they are so well matched that it makes them perfect to each other

  • Jaime
    18 years ago

    My boyfriend is far from perfect, but he seems so perfect for me. Does that count?

  • Truest Lies
    18 years ago

    Oh... I don't really believe in perfection, and when you stare at anyone long enough you start to see all these flaws, eventually.
    If I had a boyfriend, it would be ideal that he loved and cared for me as much as I cared for him, and of course I would really like it if he was a funny person, or just knew how to cheer me up... Basically, I'll know when I find him!

    //T.L.//

  • John U
    18 years ago

    my perfect girl... shouldnt be perfect, she should be smart but kind of ditzy at the same time, she has to be cute of course, she has to be funny even if its not on purpose most of the time if she makes funny little mistakes thats great too, she needs to be athletic i play alot of sports and i need some one that can keep up with me, she absolutely has to be honest to me i hate when i am lied to by the people i trust, i like nice people but i guess she can be a little rude if its not all the time and she just does it as a bit of a joke or to mess around, she has to come to me when she is sad, lonely, bored or just wants some1 to talk to, i need to be that person, i love not just being their boyfriend but one of their best friends

  • Bre
    18 years ago

    my perfect guy...
    should make me laugh
    should not care about what people think about us
    should be cute
    should be intelligant

  • Gem
    18 years ago

    I've found my perfect guy.
    To other people he's nowhere near perfect, i know.
    But i fell in love with him and him with me.
    And that in itself... is perfect.

  • xTheEcstasyOfSuicidex
    18 years ago

    Darien's "No one is perfect" Is true..

    BUT

    Your imperfections are what makes you perfect. Dereck Drake is my perfect man. Because all his imperfections make him perfect. =]

    xDarkSuicidex

  • Love Panda
    18 years ago

    to look HOT in a waist coat suit..maybe cute reading glasses..sexy arms-not to skinny and not too much muscle-just a little bit off muscle..like reading/watching the same things as i do.have a great sarcastic witt about him for all my coments, a guy who can role play without laughing, a guy who's not a secret...

    october xx

  • Corrie
    18 years ago

    love is wanting the best for that person even if that means its not you.

  • Kassie
    18 years ago

    Ohh...idk...probly sum1 that loves me for who i am...and ya no1's perfect...but at least we can find the IDEAL guy/girl...sum1 whos honest..wont drop me for sum1 else

    much love
    Kassie

  • Darien
    18 years ago

    Its true that in our perspective the imperfections of our girlfriend/boyfriend make them seem perfect, but let me assure you, they are flawed. You may not see it, because you choose to not see it, but that is perfectly fine. Still, no one is perfect, so having a perfect someone, seems impossible. The perfect people with think we have, well, relationships succeed or fail, but only time will take you there, you will decide how far it goes.

    I don't doubt any of your relationships. I hope the best for everyone. We may not be perfect, but we always have room for improvement. Who wants to be perfect anyway? That would be utterly boring.

  • charley
    17 years ago

    the ideal guy would be someone that
    1)charming
    2)loving
    3)never lies
    4)never cheats
    5)and no matter what will love me for me

  • iminlovewithlove
    17 years ago

    the only things i really want are:
    -for him to love me
    -be atleast a little romantic, i would want to do things like lie under the stars (:D:D:D)
    -for him to never cheat on me
    -and he would have to be comfortable enough with himself to not be desperate for a girl, but still want to love one

    so pretty much, i just want a boy to love me that i wouldnt have to worry about.

  • xXxAngelEyes007xXx
    17 years ago

    well my bf is perfect to me sweet carng i was on the phone with him and he had summin to do and didnt want to get off the phone until he had to

  • Avani
    17 years ago

    well noone is perfect...... but the guy tht i will fall in love with will the perfect one for me. Like there is a sayin "Noone is perfect until u fall in love with em". For me, i would say i want him to be funny, smart, caring, truthful, keeping his words, and love me to death.

  • mistressxsork
    17 years ago

    Um.. the perfect guy for me.. would be.. I don't know.. the one I fall in love with?

    Things change in what you like.. so why even care about them at all? The one you are with.. is PERFECT FOR YOU. nothing more or less.

  • MischieviousMya
    17 years ago

    there isnt a "perfect" guy for me. cause perfect doesnt exsist, its just another word in the dictionary......haha

    so lets try my IDEAL guy =o]

    a few preferences i have would be....tall (cause im super model tall lol).....superrr funny.....can hold a conversation........thats it really lol

  • Fluffy
    17 years ago

    No one in the world is 'perfect'. It's the way one treats you and you treat them that should be perfect.

    All I'd ever ask for in a guy is love, passion, understanding, intelligence and wisdom. But I think I've already found him...

  • xViagraTheCookiex
    17 years ago

    a guy who is sweet.. romantic.. caring.. loving.. but is not afraid to BE a guy.. that horny thing that wont leave you alone.. lollz... a bad boy.. but is good too... so really i want everything.. except for a druggie.. had too many of em.. and all of em hurt me emotionally...

  • Finalgravedigger
    17 years ago

    cristy: nice, funny, caring,

  • You[complete]Me
    17 years ago

    i think that love is not meeting sumone perfect but its about seeing someone imperfect perfectly.

    so a good personality....looks are good. clean. NOT prude. maybe wild. crazi. not afraid to show the real them.

  • lost in lovee
    17 years ago

    my perfect guy? he would have 2 be funny cuz im always laughing. he would have 2 be someone i could trust and would always be there. he doesn't have to be cute hot sexy or nothin like that there jus has to be something that attracts me to him. nd he has to have a good personality

  • Jaime
    17 years ago

    Okay, I said way up there^ that my boyfriend is perfect for me. Here's why:

    -We can spend hours together without getting sick of each other.
    -He's easy to talk to, and even when he doesn't understand me, he tries really hard to be empathetic.
    -He's got a great sense of humour.
    -He respects me.
    -He looks at me so sincerely, that I believe every word he says.
    -He likes to do stupid stuff to try and make me smile.
    -He has enough in common with me that we get along, but he's different enough from me that we can actually have a conversation. A good one.
    -I know he's trustworthy.
    -He's very committed.
    -He worries about me too much, and although it can be sort of annoying, I know he only does it because he cares.
    -And he's such a dork.♥ :P

  • Ms Darkin
    17 years ago

    Mine is perfect as well, hes my total opposite cause he is 6'1, hawaiian (so bigger then meh) wears black and chains all the time and cares about meh. He is my love, my only one.

    But at first...i was scared of him...sheesh hes a goth too

  • The Lonely Rose
    17 years ago

    I use to hav a perect guy(in my oppion) but i lost him...well i dont know bout an perfect guy anymore...ill find him and then i can say wat he looks lik and his characteristics......haha

  • Gauraw Patil
    17 years ago

    Perfect girl... I've found one... & I just love her a lot... But, she even don't have a clue about my feeling for her...

  • SomewhereAmongThePieces
    17 years ago

    Characteristics:
    believes in God
    a family guy
    - gets along with my family
    -good with kids
    affectionate
    Musical
    has a good sense of humour
    -can handle my dad's constant teasing
    intellegent
    would come running to hold me if I cried
    loves me no matter what
    respects me and my boundaries
    non-violent
    protective but trusts that I'll be faithful

    Physical:
    Tall
    older then me!!
    brown eyes *gets all dreamy*
    dark hair
    good teeth (I can't stand bad teeth)
    good hygene- a huge part of attraction for me is a good smell

    Just meet my ex then you'll find out everything I DON'T want in a boyfriend

  • Poetvoices
    17 years ago

    I have a perfect guy. All I have to do is get him to notice me. Easier said than done.
    PV

  • Lori Lee
    17 years ago

    I honestly don't believe in finding the perfect guy because I honestly don't believe a perfect guy exists. so I guess just find someone thats as messed up as you are and...ya'll can be happy together. (just kidding)

    but um...I do believe in finding that one person that you're totally comfortable with. and you feel like you just fit with them, and no-one else. but still...they'd be very far from perfect, I believe

  • aisyned
    17 years ago

    well no one is perfect but... if i culd get a machine to make the perfect guy it would be......

    a guy who is cute yet not to cute where everyone would be flirting with him.. just a couple.Honest about everything.Comforting and sensitive when needs to be.Asks for help when he needs it. ASKS FOR DIRECTIONS WHEN LOST! lol thats a biggie and doesn't scream or hit me. Basically someone who has a warm heart

  • Silent Screams
    17 years ago

    there is no such thing

  • kori
    17 years ago

    The perfect guy for me would have to have this characteristics:

    Good talker and listener,
    Caring,
    Protective,
    Creative,
    Funny,
    Doesn't hold me back,
    Romantic,
    Likes to read,
    Trustworthy,
    Love rock (music),
    Sweet,
    Lot of patience,
    Honest,
    Out going,
    Understanding,
    Able to joke around,
    Playful,
    Responsible,
    Takes school seriously,
    Gets along with my family,
    Affectionate.

    And for me, looks do matter at first. When I look for a guy this is what I look for:

    Dark hair,
    Brown eyes,
    Nice arms,
    Nice stomach and chest,
    Carrys himself nicely,
    Big hands,
    Taller than me,
    Adorable smile
    And has to smell good.

    And most of all, he has to have a BIG heart.

    && I disagree with the people who are saying nobody is perfect. My boyfriend is perfect in my eyes.

  • Sandra D
    17 years ago

    my perfect guy...
    ... is able to handle it when im hyper
    ... has a hella good sense of humor
    ... love me for me
    ... can make me smile, no matter what
    ... loves music
    ... is there for me when i need him the most
    ... outgoing
    ... and... preferrably has a six pack... ;-P
    sexiness!!

    Forever♥Yours