cure?

what can cure feelings of loneliness and despair?

anyone??

october xx

Well, to help your loneliness why don't you try spending some time with people you love, people who bring joy to you. Keep yourself busy, whether it's by yourself or with others.
Other than that, I really don't know what to say because I don't know exactly where you're coming from. Why exactly are you feeling loneliness and despair?

Itz very hard 2 cure that because 4 emotions cures r hard 2 find, but i say find someone who can make u happy n understand u.

Time

i dont know, i just feel like this most of the time...i hide and sleep alot, so im not near people-so i dont have to talk meaningless subjects to them that may bore them and will defnatly bore me.

as for finding someone-i did have someone..he's gone now, he wasnt what i thought he was.

october xx

ya know i feel the same way at the mo, and am on the fone to my mate, but still feel lonely and sh*t *doh.. the hope of knowing it will be better tomorrow helps [even if tomorrow never comes.. there's always a tomorrow]

my tomorrow (im guessing) is going to be exactly the same today and yesterday...i have a routine, i do that and dont go out of bounds, but the whole talking to people is (do i have too?) all i want is to live by myself in the middle of a wood with a lake for me to swim in, (just dreaming though) to get that i have to work and to work i have to work with total losers who cheat and lie to make themselfs better than i..

october xx

If ya lose hope and faith of tomorrow, what else have you got? People who lie and cheat aren't worth stressing over, there's always gonna be these people in ya life.. but.. there's always the honest people too.. and they mightt just come around tomorrow.. sorry if i not making much sense.. been drinking and trying to make myself feel better too.. and so what if they are better than you or worse.. be the best you can be, that in itself should make ya a happier person

i think you really touched home with that one..but i cant help but think that nobody on this earth has been through what i have, the pain ive felt, the love i lost, all the fights and the family feud, the abuse and the deaths...am i alone in all of this or are there people out there that HAVE felt this pain...it wont go away, can you believe-im still grieving for a loved one, who died 6 years ago..i cant cope with the rest of this crap either..im trying not to hurt the people around me, but someone always gets hurt and its like i have no control over hurting them, i know im rambling now-insomnia does get the better of me..

october xx

i know too well about insomnia lol.. are you the only one been through all this? no, definitely not.. I haven't been through everything, but between me and my closest friends, we've encountered most things.. You are coping, it may not be the way you want to be coping, but you are still here and still fighting.. I still grieve for people I have lost from 18years ago.. but it gets easier.. never give up cos ya never know whats round the corner.. I have had my fair share of shit and heartache in my life.. more than my fair share.. but it makes ya stronger.. at the minute I have put my own happiness on the line for someone I really care about, cos their happiness is more important right now.. but i know things will be alright, because if i stop believing that.. then i'll give up.. and i not willing to give up... stay strong.. everything will be alright in the end.. if it's not alright, it's not the end ;]

theres so many things that have happened were i wish i could of done something to change the out come, stood up to the guys being mean to me, stand up and believe my friend when she said she was raped..done something more when she wanted an abortion but later changed her mind (too late)but then she has a go at me for not being safe-whats that about?!? my head feels like its bursting,the words people speake to me sound like rappid gunfire around both my ears..it just wont go away, maybe i will live on for tomorrow but what about the next day and the next day-i can feel myself slipping further away,falling down a hole i just cant climb out of.

october xx

you're stronger than you think.. we all are.. and these challenges will make you even stronger.. there's always things we wish we could have done differently.. whats done is done though.. ya can't turn back the clock.. live and learn. Life may be sh*t at times but it still goes on, ya just have to make the most out of a bad situation.. however hard.

true-i supose...

...i like talking to people on hear-they inspire me to go on.

thank you

october xx

i did not cause my own suffering, i like the poem though....were ever did you find it? or did you write it yourself?

i cant find peace as this darkness has taken hold of me and wont let go.even if i beg.

october xx

wise words sir [Bob].. you need to search for the light.. find the rage against the dying of the light.. words from my friend on the fone right now :]

thank you to both of you.....
...bob your poem has inspired me, not to forget that we all have pain and suffering - its just not all the same, we all have to cope, and its the ones who cope well that succeed in life..instead of tapping out and facing the dark hole of despair..

thank you again..

october xx

dear october there is nothing wrong with missing this person but do u think this is what he wants u to live like? maybe instead of greaving u should celabrate his life and thank him 4 bringing such unforgetable times. do you honestly thinks this is how he wants you too live ur life giving up?