My Experience of Love (I'm confused)

Well some of you might remember that I had a huge crush on this girl in one of my classes last year? If not it doesn't matter it won't make a difference about reading on. Well she found out and had a boyfriend at the time and said she didn't feel that way for me so that was it over. Then I realised thatthere was a different girl who I talked to a lot online and I thought we did like each other a lot but then when I plucked up the courage and asked her out she said she was sorta seeing someone, then I was totally crushed but out of nowhere a girl I never knew asked me out so I said yeah. I went out with her for a week andall that happened was arguing so I finished it, especially after the horrible stuff she said to me. So then I was finished no one and after a while I grew close to another girl, a friend of the girl in my class and I thoguth this was real love, we both loved being around each other and we both cared deeply for each other but one day she said to me I don't want to hurt you but I think I'm not ready for a relationship, I let on I wasn't hurt and I was ok with it because I didn't want her to be hurt thinking she'd hurt me and now we are still very good friends but I dunno if anything will ever happen again, It could do but it may not. So right now I am single and I am quite happy enough although I don't know what to do anymore, there is this one girl who I think about, I obviously still think about the other girls I mentioned, minus the one I dumped obviously, but this girl I met her once, she is a year younger and the thing is she's a mates's sister's mate and I dunno if that would be wrong and I dunno how they would act and it's confusing but then again I don't even know if she'd go out with me anyway. So I dunno what to do anymore!

You have time. It's not like you are in your deathbed wanting to change your life. At this time in your life, you need to date around. How will you know when it is true love unless you have someting to compare it to. On the other hand, find some friends to hang out with. Male, female, go bowling, hit some concerts, see a movie. Friends are great people to hang with while you are searching for that special someone.

Helpful hint: the best relationships happen when you aren't looking

Wow...okay, i think you need to take things a bit slower. You Instead of trying to start a relationship, take a break. You have a lot of time left. Sometimes when you least expect it, the most amazing person comes along. It takes time. Stop looking, and wait it out. ^I also agree that you should be dating around. There are so many girls out there. I think it's best to try and get to know someone before taking things to the next level. If you don't, you might end up hurt again. In order to persue a lasting relationship, both people need to feel strongly enough about one another to want to keep it going. That's all the advice i've got for right now. I hope it helps some..

I now how you feel buddy, The same thing happened to me, down the thoughts, anyway, dont worry, sometime, somewhere you ill find a gal you like to be with, and she likes to be with you, and you will know its real when its time.