Confused totally.....Can you help plese?

  • MorbidCupcake
    18 years ago

    I really like this guy....and for a while I always thought he felt the same way but he was giving me mixed messages that I couldnt read. He would stare at me during class, move his foot near mine and then keep it there, butt into my conversations even if they had nothing to do with him, and he would always be behind me when I was walking to the next class. So after a little while of being his sorta friend....I got his number from another friend and I called him up asking for the 'homework'.

    The next day, I was playing that game when you push a pretend button and you pick someone to ask out by guessing a number.....and I got him so I passed him a note during class asking if he would go out with me. Like this:
    1. No Never!
    2. Yes
    3. Maybe Idk
    (yes i kno, babish blah blah blah)

    And he circled number 1. No Never!, but he crossed out the never so much that he made a hole in the paper right through the word. And he asked me how I got his number. As I was telling him, I asked him why he crossed out the never and he said that he didnt know why.

    About a week later, we were watching a movie on the band stage, and there was no where to sit so I had to sit on the floor right in front of him. Except he was sitting on the chorus riser not the floor. Half way through the movie he moved so close to me that his leg was practically on top of my leg but I never said anything. He said no when I asked him out, and then he went out with someone else, then she dumped him. And even after she dumped him, he flirts with me and all like before but never does anything about it. And I dont know why he acts like that. He would talk to me on the phone the night before and be all nice, and then make fun of it a little around his friends the next day.

    ......Now, 4 months later...we hardly see eachother anymore cuz of new schedules at school and Ive been backing away. I havent called him in a month and we dont see much of eachother. And when we do its akward. If we pass each other in the halls we just stare into eachothers eyes and stop for a minute......but no one says a word....and lately hes been acting more friendly but he still acts hot and cold. I dony understand it...right when I forget about him.....he pulls me in deeper and i fall again. Why do you think he does tht?

  • Lovely Bones
    18 years ago

    I can definately understand that. That's the way I am with a guy at my school, but I've never asked him out or anything like that. I've actually come to realize when school started and I never got to see him, was that I am actually better off without him. Give it time :)

  • MorbidCupcake
    18 years ago

    Yes i agree.....maybe the guy just wants a flirting buddy.....and he doesnt wanna be serious.

  • MorbidCupcake
    18 years ago

    forget him hes a jackass