I'm gay.

I just got a girlfriend and we have a secret spot where we makeout after school and what not.. but we have to act normal at tennis and school.. its so hard :[

ya it can be hard to be different and be in school and all but dont if ppl find out dont let them put u donw for who u love stand tall and be proud.

you mean you are a lesbian..

na i think it's fine...it's hard..but can't u girls talk like friends??.....u no lovers and friends are no difference..they hug,..they walk togeather..u see it's kinda same as relationship...so..even friends sits togeather..

well, I don't really know what to say to this, but you could tell your friends and family;)

In 7th Grade I Didn't Know My Ex Was Lesbian I Just Thought She Hanged Out With Her Best Friend They Hang Out Every Minute But I Didn't Find Out Untill 8th Grade But If Your Lesbian It's Fine No One Should Be Judged If They're Straight,Gay,Lesbian Or Bi-Sexual

=/ Tragedy indeed..

It's going to be tough to keep that a secret, but you should tell your friends at least. See what they think, and see if they will support you. I don't have any lesbian or gay friends, but I think they would still be my friend if they were. I have a bi-sexual friend, and when he told me, I was like.. at least we can still pick up girls together!.. haha, not a big deal to me..

I agree with poetess, it helps to let people know, not the wrong people, but the people that will suport you, and even if the wrong people find out, just give em the su-fi... well I hope you feel like etting someone know.

Secret - Yeah. Lesbian IS gay.

Anyway to the original poster, you shouldn't feel you have to hide your sexuality. But I know a lot of people do. I suggest "coming out" to close friends and family when you're ready to. Until then, enjoy the time with your new girlfriend!

It's sad in this day and age that we still have to hide our sexuality from some people.. I am personally proud that I am les and do not try to hide it, but at times I worry too much about others attitudes towards it.. A couple of years ago I got a pint of beer thrown in my face just for looking gay, and because I am fairly shy and hate confrontation of any kind, I tend to worry more now, than I did when I first came out.. luckily the majority of people are kool with it.. all my friends and family know and they are happy as long as I am.. Knowing I have the support of the people that I love and those whose opinions count, I don't really care what anyone else think anymore :] good luck in Your relationship.. Just enjoy it :] xx

hey:):) how r a hun? i no how u feel...im in sort of the same situation...i no im bi but i think i mite b lesbian i duno...its evn hard for me to rite it on this website coz im so paranoid people will find out it is me...most of my frineds arre pretty cooll with the whole lesbian/gay thing but i cant tell my parents im too embarraseed..yeh also my best frined n i have a super close realtionship...we are onky frineds n thats all we will ever b but we also ALWAYZ makeout lol i love her to death but she confueses the fk out me:( buut i still love her:) n e way hun good luck xoxo