h.e.l.p...s.t.r.a.n.d.e.d..w./..n.o.o.n.e..2..t.a.l.k..2

i was suppose to be goin with this guy name Jesse and he called me up today an told me he screwed a girl and got her pregnant while he was drunk! :((

It hurt me so much because we were goin out since August 3rd!

WOW... I've had the same thing happen to me girl. It hurts really bad I've been through the exact same thing and it SUCKS and well he was drunk and said can't you forgive me and well I couldn't take it. I no longer see this guy we were together for almost a year and we called it off because the girl had a mischarrage.

Even though he was drunk, it doesnt matter, somewhere in there, he wanted to...

But what I cant get thru my head is that he never told me until like 2 weeks later. He said he was going to call me last night but he never did! It hurt so bad! I felt that I really did love him that i would forgive him but he owes alot to me! And hes always drunk with his friends and that.. Idk.. it hurts.

wow, i honestly can't believe that... please tell me your b/f was like much older than you, b/c it says you're only 14... wow, if he is your age a.he shouldn't be drinking and b.he certainly shouldn't be having sex! wth is this teenage world coming to!?! honestly! Honey, if he's THAT stupid at 14 or even a year or two older, he definitely aint gonna be worth it the long run! i have no clue what kind of an effect this has on you, i just needed to say WOW if this kid is the same age as you!

I moved on tho.. A guy named Kyle asked me out and I said yes. But its just to keep my mind off of Jesse...

Is moving on a good thing to do in this situation?

yeah, moving on is the only thing to do the way I see it...
Good that you said yes to Kyle, so you can keep your mind off Jesse. ;)

Okay.. Kyle broke up with me for who knows what! I guess I never did really listen to people that tried to tell me he was a player! I guess I got caught up in the way he loved me and that. But i just found out today by myself that I gotta move on. We we've together since Sept. 13th and broke up yesterday. I guess the only way is to move on. Just sitting there and moping shows that the other person is really hurting you and thats probably all they want to see out of you; hurt!

And I lost a good friend because she dumped him and he asked me to go to homecoming dance with him after he was told she dumped him. I like him in all but I dont wanna go thru the same thing that happened with me and kyle and me and Jesse! But I guess I got to play the game the way life wants to play it. I swear I'm going to try to WIN!

You think I'm on the right track???

is it the right thing to do?