im so stupid

this is gonna sound so pathetic but im in love with my best friend, im a girl and shes a girl. she goes out with boys and so do i but shes also very close to me, i dont know werther she will like me in that way though and i never realised that i was attracted to girls as well as boys. im very confused and i need help. x

There's a very close line between the love You feel for Your best friend and that of being in love. I went through this with my best friend.. I realised my best friend is my best friend because she is so perfect in every way, and when You meet someone so perfect You start to think You would be perfect together. If You want to know how she feels about You, You need to sit down and have a heart to heart with her.. me and my friend had this, and were both confused about the love we feel for each other, but came to the conclusion that our friendship can't get any better, but by getting into a relationship it could destroy what we have, and neither of us wanted to lose the 'perfect' friendship.. Talk to your friend and see what she says about it, and take it from there.. good luck xx

thanks donna xx

It could be, not that you're actually in love with her, but that since she's always been there for you and you guys are so close, that you wish you had those qualities in a boyfriend.

See..

there's a difference between, loving someone, and being in love with someone. You can love many people, but being in love with them is a whole different story. You may love your friend, that's perfectly fine. Think it over..