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  • LovelessAndConfused
    18 years ago

    I am 18 years old but my bf is 16 but in the same grade as me. Is that bad? Everyone keeps telling me I am going to get locked up for being with him even if I don't have sex or anything with him. They say I am going to influence him? huh. Whats your opinion on this?

  • sibyllene
    18 years ago

    it happens the other way a lot, where the guy is 18 and the girl 16. as long as you are both on the same maturity level, i don't see a problem with only 2 years apart. you would be able to get in trouble if it was a sexual relationship, however.

  • Rachel
    18 years ago

    At 16 isn't it aloud though?! I'm pretty sure.

    Don't worry about what everyone says, its what you both feel. PLEASE TRUST ME ON THIS, DON'T make any decision to make everyone else feel better, do what you feel is right!!!

  • John U
    18 years ago

    if u were both under 18 then it would be fine but since your 18 u cant have sex until he turns 18 but anything else u do without any trouble at all and for a relationship 2 years isnt that big of a difference you're fine

  • Darien
    18 years ago

    Excuse me.. you're in the same grade as him?
    So it's either you failed or he's just super smart, I'm assuming. Your friends have no clue what they are saying. It isn't illegal, because he isn't considered a minor. Take it from someone who is studying law at University. It would be illegal if he were 14 or younger.

  • LovelessAndConfused
    18 years ago

    thanks guys

  • LovelessAndConfused
    18 years ago

    he started school earlier and I repeated kindergarden because I wasn't social enough to my mom at the time.

  • susie
    18 years ago

    ur only 2 years apart u woulnt get locked up its like a 30 year old and a 15 year old that would get locked up

  • LovelessAndConfused
    18 years ago

    yea I know but my friends are stupid or jelouse or something like that

  • Gem
    18 years ago

    two years?
    The difference between me and Marcus is nearly two years.
    Does age really matter anyway?
    Who cares what friends think? Its what you and your boy think that matters.

  • LovelessAndConfused
    18 years ago

    very true. Me and my boy are tottally in love and don't care. My friends are just a pain in my ass about it and saying shit

  • Lovely Bones
    18 years ago

    My friend was dating a younger guy.. everyone wasn't ok with it though. But it wasn't the age it was just that he was really immature and treated her like crapp. I'm not saying that's gonna happen to you, I was just sayin. I wish you luck and many blessings for the future :)

  • LovelessAndConfused
    18 years ago

    aww thanks

  • LovelessAndConfused
    18 years ago

    thanks but I want to wait anyway so it works out for now