She is IMPOSSIBLE!!!

My best friend has lately been driving me completely insane. It is impossible to have a serious conversation with her. She recently was babysitting for someone and quit on the spot. (She was working 11 hour days, cleaning the entire house, the child was impossible, and every time she tried to do a right, the mother would make her look like an idiot, plus she only got paid $20 A DAY) Anyways, she still owes her $200.00. Anyways, now she says she won't pay her. (BTW...this women is her aunt!) She (AUNT) has been a real bitch with everyone lately. She refuses to pay her. Now, everytime she is brought up, my friend starts getting really mad, loud and aggressive. I can never talk to her about anything serious. I told her today that she gets really agressive, and should try to talk calmly, and she hasn't talked to sinse then.

But really, I can't have a serious conversation with her without her getting mad, loud and VERY agressive.

I think you two might both have a problem then. Evidently something is bugging her. I think a person needs a reason to be mad but that might be an unreasonable interpretation on my part.