My best friend loves me D=

I feel terrible. I've known him for a long time, and i've rejected him 2 times. Once because, well, I dont have that "feeling" for him. You know, the one you get when you think your in love? And the second time because, I myself was in love with one of my best friends. Well, now me and the and the one I had "more then friend" feelings for, are dating. I love him more then anything else in the world..but not only do I have fear for the fact that relationships never seem to last, but my other best friend STILL likes me!! >_< I've told him many times that I dont feel for him that way, and I love my bf..
But you always hear how the girl gets her heart broken over and over, and thinks she's falling in love, over and over..then at the end, she realized that the only one she really loves is that one "best friend" who loved her all along.....This might make absolutly no sense, and sound like the mindless ramblings of an idiot, but if ANY of you understand, of think you understand, gimme some advice please. I need to know what I should do..what I should think...

Thanks much

Ok, well you should tell your best friend you feel you can be closer to him just being a best friend, not being in a relationship. You are already in one and if he can't face the facts you are, tell him to find someone else and stop bugging you. By all means, tell the truth. The truth may hurt, but it's definately better than a lie which leads to bigger hurt.

I hope I helped.

I'm going to say something that will probably annoy you cos it annoys me when its said to me. lol

"Follow your heart"

=)

I understand what you're saying. You love your b/f, and don't have those feelings for your friend. You're just afraid that if your relationship doesn't wrok out, you might end up feeling like the one you really love is the best friend you don't have feelings for. Confusing, but did i get it right?

My advice is to sit down with your best friend, and tell him about these feelings. I don't mean just talk, i mean explain. If you have to, take an hour or two just to let him know what you're feeling. Oh and you shouldn't fret about the chance of your relationship not working out. You need to think positive. I'm kind of tired from school so that's all i've got for now, but if you need anymore advice, i will probably have some that's a lot better later.

wow that actually helped alot, THANKS MUCH = ]