why sad?

Because it takes much work to make your own happiness. Let's face it we are now a society that is lazy and prefer's to sit on our duff watching others.

Point: We are too lazy to make our own happiness happen and no one can give it to us!

Just my personal opinion.

--Sher

To remeber the happy moments means that you want them back.

To get them back requires some work.

To put in the work you would have to get up off your lazy butt...

oh hell why not just sit here and mope about how good it once was... requires less energy and people feel sorry for you.

--Sher

What a vicious cycle we run

Because it's the sad times that hurt us the most

actually I was gonna go into a long explaination and explain why people aren't stupid, but couldn't be bothered with a heated discussion :]... so deleted it all and just left the first sentence.. It's the times that hurt us which we dwell on because the hurt stays there longer.. happy times come and go, but sadness stays for a lot longer

I agree but when people feel bad the only times they remember are the sad times, when you think everything is going wrong in your life, it's so difficult to see any good.. Thats what depression is and it doesn't matter how hard you try to think of the good points in life, they just don't seem to want to come.. I see the good in most situations nowadays but there was a time when I could see no good at all. It was something beyond my control at that time, even though now I can see there were some good things that happened during those years.. even if it was just that it made me a stronger person :]

the bad stuff is easier to see..

october xx

maybe because,the so depressed,that its all dark

Human Nature.