what do guys like in a girl? what turns them on?

  • melly xx
    18 years ago

    what do guys like in a girl?? i really want to know. What do they find cute about girls? What turns them on?

  • Darien
    18 years ago

    I think you're too young to know what turns a guy on, but I can tell you what some guys like in girls.

    Me, for example, would like a girl that would laugh at my immature jokes, who would be immature herself at times, and serious at others. Someone I can talk to, so she has to be a good listener, as well as someone who isn't too shy and knows how to break the ice. Smart, a girl that can carry on a conversation about anything, and still make sense. A girl that will appreciate me for who I am, and not what I'm worth. I guess, I would say, an easy going girl, that likes to have fun, that's immature yet intellectual. I don't think that's a lot to ask for.. is it?

  • TheBeautifulStruggle
    18 years ago

    Thats not much to ask for at all.
    There's a lot of girls out there, that are like that, and I guess its just finding them.

    I'm like that in a way. I've been told i'm funny, caring, easy to talk to etc etc and yet I always get messed around and used.

  • BrokenREALiTy
    18 years ago

    Yeah that ain`t much to ask for .
    &&Well, not every guy is the sammee . A lot of the guys I`ve met that I hang out with (They`re all in high school&&college) , most of them look for the same thing, but when they find it, they don`t reealize what they want is right in front of them .
    Some of my girls to that too so idk .
    So my friends&&i been used and thrown away , too .

  • TheBeautifulStruggle
    18 years ago

    Yeah, I think guys just think, "Yeah I have here, its ok" AND Then they end up neglecting them and do stupid things.

    Well, I guess sometimes they dont no what they've lost until its gone

  • Paige
    18 years ago

    I totally agree with you guyz. But i dont think its only males that do this. Women also dont know what they have right infront of them. Everyone takes advantage of what they have and its only when that person leaves that we realise the hole extent of your feelings ect

  • waiting 4 some1
    18 years ago

    as for me i like the shy type. i ike the girl that is shy but not too shy that she won't speak because i am also a shy guy and can't speak too much. i want the girl to respect my feelings because i will do the same. and i warn all the girls. because males are like foxes, they lie and do tricks to get what they want from girls then throw them away. i am a male and i know that. but of course i am not like this and will never be.