How should I deal with this?

  • Dana
    18 years ago

    My boyfriend broke up with me because he met this girl and started liking her. He told me they were just friend, but I always knew something was going to happen. He was the first person I ever loved and I feel like dying so bad right now. What should I do? Do you think I'll be able to get over him as easily as people say?

  • HOLLYWOODxBANGBANG
    18 years ago

    It'll take time. Just keep your friends close and spend time with them. Don't focus your attention on him. Focus it on friends, family, yourself, school, work; whatever it may be. Put all of the things he ever gave you in a box and put it in the back of your closet. Don't throw it away, many regret throwing it away. It won't be so hard after awhile. If you ever need to talk about anything, I am here.

    -Jenna.

  • BrokenREALiTy
    18 years ago

    It`s gonna take some time, hun` . Heartbreak like thaat kan take a whilee . A guy I liike liked my best friend, who was like a big sister to me , and we didn`t even go out . It toko me almost a year to get over him , but if yu keep him at a distance, and keep him close at the same time, you`ll start to get over it, slowly . Everything that he gave yu as a gift, or the things that yu&&him made together, the pictures and all ? Place it somewhere till yu get over it .
    Cry your heart out if yu must, do all that yu need to first, and then do the simple thiings to help get over him .
    Though you don`t know mee, I`m always there to listen, hun` .
    Keep yah` head up&&Don`t let a guy bring yu downn for lonng .
    ♥..__MiNDYY

  • ♥ brokendolly ♥
    18 years ago

    ..just take some time alone.

  • ABrookeD
    18 years ago

    I agree that it takes time. It took me a while to get over one of my ex's. I really cared about him. I thought i would never find someone i could care about that much ever again. I felt sick as well. It's been about a year, and i did find someone who i care about just as cared about him. You may never completely get over them, but you will move on. It's difficult, but in time things will get better.

  • HOLLYWOODxBANGBANG
    18 years ago

    It is not the right thing to do to find a different person when you're not even close to being over them. Don't go on the rebound; it doesn't help at all. Wait until you at least think you can move on properly without every little thing reminding you of him and breaking you down.

    -Jenna.