help needed

  • TC
    20 years ago

    hehe, thats what my gf did for me when she wanted to tell me that she liked me, hehe, and also Im tryin to cut down on her letter writings and cut down on her shyness ;), thing is, ya dont know if he is as understandin as me, cuz well what if he is a jerk and will laugh at your note? cuz well I know my gf was shy and she still kinda is, but I understand that and well I make her as comfortable as possible, what if he is very different and not as understandable about the note thing?, I would say just goin up to him and sayin it straight off

  • Brian King
    20 years ago

    just go up to him and say "hey your hot wanna go out?"

    it works for me

  • Lydia O
    20 years ago

    I agree with Michaela.

    It sounds like he may be a bit shy. Here is what I think may work. Be direct! This may take a little courage but it will probably be worth it. Write down your name, phone #, email, or whatever other way you might like to be contacted. Then just go up to him and tell him you would really like to get to know him better. And tell him you think he's an interesting or good looking (or whatever) guy. Then ask him if he would give you a call at some specific time like 8PM tonight or 9PM tomorrow night "so we can talk." If he says yes, then write down the agreed upon time on the paper with your # and then hand it to him. Having a specified time is very important. Tell him OK ... I'll wait for your call at ... Now the ball is in his court. If he calls, great. If not, don't be devastated. You haven't invested your life in this. If he fails to call, next time you see him you could say, " I guess you must have lost interest?" just to be sure there was no misunderstanding. But usually guys are flattered to know that a girl is interested enough to take the initiative. Eye contact and a nice smile also go a long way. Good luck!!!

  • Hope
    20 years ago

    AAAASSSSSSKKKKKKK HHHHIIIIIIMMMMM. You could wait after school or class and just walk with him back to his locker or down the street. On the way, start off by saying "*Name* i have this problem. You see there is this guy i like" Make it like a game to have himg guess and then eventually talk about ur personal connection and feelings. This worked for me. Bon chance :)

  • alexander
    20 years ago

    bad idea U should go to him and say it to him it`s your love life and not of your friend