Guilt Trip (help needed puh-leeze guyz!!)

Heyy guyz, i kinda need some help

About 6-7months ago thuis year this guy asked me out and it was very out of the blue and caught me by suprise but i said yes. The feeling I got after saying yes wasn't what i expectd so after an hour of holding hands i went home and txtd him saying I didn't want to go out with him anymore. Ever since heez used it againt me and it really sucks. For the first 3months afterwards he wouldn't let go and was constantly trying 2 win me over. And then heez trying to make me feel guilty and sh*t by saying things like oh yeahi really like sarah or summat but i dunno if she likes me. its horrible. Just recently heez bein real nasty to me and and ignoring me and giving me dirrty looks. and get this, he even refused to touch anything i'd touched. i mean if thats not immature wat is? yeah well anywayz i txtd him and we made up and he saw my new cuts onmy arm, i recently started cutting myself and he got all annoyed atb me and started telling EVERYBODY and wen i askd him bout it he denyed it. he also called me attention seeking which he also denies but dosnt the fact that i dont want anybody to kno bout my cuts say something? yeah well anywayz i want to kno ow to get it through his head dat he cant help keep using the fact i broke up wit him against me and stop making my life miserable. i really have 2 stop making excuses 4 him. thanx any feedbak appreciated!

xxoo,
alysse

Oh Alysse, boys at your age ARE immature, so I don't know if there is much you can do about him.... are you two friends?? but the sound of things Im guessing no, then I would suggest don't bother with him... or maybe say it straight to his face that you two can be friends if he stop being doing whatever he does that annoys you and if he carries on just ignore him... totally... yeah, sorry, these are my 3 cents input, wish you the best with this matter :) take care.

when ya seem him next, come up to him, say "F**K YOU" and slap him on the face, infront of all of his buddies, it'll make ya feel better

no tc she should kick him in the balls and make him cry infront of everyone

OMG thats soooo sad lolz! I don't have the heart to do that! Yeah well heez very self centred and today i saw him stabbing his arm with a pen and it was bleeding! it was horrible but heez such a hypocrite and i told him he was bein stupid that he was bein a hypocrite ad he told me 2 fuck off! it was sooo rude and the whole point of avioding goin out wit someone is so i can stay focussed at school. its jst sooo annoying!

xxoo,
alysse

p.s thanx 2 everyone who made a suggestion

guyyz? anybody there?? :'(

Heyy Charles,

thanx 4 ur response, i really needed it. Msybe he was trying to sho me hurting myself isnt gud but i dont really cut myself, i just scratch myself deep enough so it bleeds. But i suppose its no excuse. I dont have the heart to humiliate him like that, its not me... I dont want him to be my enemie but Im wasting all my energy trying to smooth things out. I dont know why he is doing this. I try but it just gets thrown back in my face, its like i cant predict his mood. And I dont know when heez gonna be nice to me and shit.

I try, I really do try to make am effort. I just dont know how much more of him I can take.

boys suck at this age.....tell him to get a life and that you dumoed him so what he should get over it unless you really mean that much to him and if thats the case he should let you live your life in peace and that is not the way to win you back (make em think he stands a chance)