Would You?

Would you date someone if you were both in your last year of high school and knew that you were going to different places for college next year?

if you liked them enough (or loved) then you should be able to work around that...atleast you should try

You never know where the roads laid ahead of you may lead you my Dear.

-Jenna.

If you really like one another and are willing to do what it takes to keep a relationship even after high school, then yes. I say go for it.

I've been with my boyfriend for four months, and this is my last year of high school. He has decided to do an extra year at high school, and I really want to get out of this town.

If we even last that long, which nobody really knows I guess, then I suppose we are going to have to worry about that then. It isn't even something we really talk about. I guess what I'm saying is: Don't hold back now, when nothing is for sure later. You may regret not dating him later, and if it doesn't work out than perhaps it will just be one of those "fun-while-it-lasted" relationships.

What if you know that it's never meant to be anyways.. but you still love him?

it is possible to stay together after high school. two of my best friends have been going out for over a year, and now they are at different colleges. however, they are both quite mature, and care for each other a lot - based on the people they are, not just on emotions. this loyalty is what will keep them together. if they ever break up, it wouldn't be because of the distance, and they'd still be friends, because of the love they have.

but it's up to you to decide. there's always something that 'could' go wrong. but if you decide to do nothing, will you always be wondering "what if...?"

If you don't, you are probably going to regret it. I say just go for it, do the best you can under the circumstances, and make it worth the effort you put into it. Maybe you aren't 'meant to be' or anything, but how would you know unless you gave it a shot?

yes... i have and it ended up not working out.. but im happy that at least i know that it wasn't meant to be and i wont regret not having gone out with him later... so i say go for it... because otherwise, you might regret not having done it...

Thanks for all you're help guys. It's much appreciated :)

I would like to hear Darien's opinion on this topic too, though. haha He's smart in the area of love.. I think lol.

:D

My boyfriend and I started dating the end of junior/senior summer...sooo right before our senior year started...and we are still together..so it's been a year and 2 months i think. we love eachother very much, we are both mature and loyal, and even if we broke up...i think we would consider trying again in the future (maybe after college). but right now we're planning on giving the long distance relationship a shot after this year (i'm taking a year off to work and he is going to a junior college 20 minutes away)....ok but anyway, i think it's better to risk it all than to risk nothing. you'll never forgive yourself if you don't at least try. i know married couples who started dating in highschool...and they dont' regret it.

if we know that it could work then i would but if i knew that it didnt and he didnt love me then i wouldnt but if he loved me i would