Guys, Guys, Guys... What Else...?

  • ShhhhItsASecret©
    18 years ago

    Okay, so there's this guy I like (as always)... And the problem is, I don't know what he feels for me. I have asked him, but he's kept his answers very vague... Basically won't tell me unless I tell him, and I'm afraid to tell him, because I'm afraid his answer would be that he doesn't like me. And I'm also afraid to tell him, because I know he doesn't want to hurt me, and I don't want my answer to dictate his answer... I just want an honest answer...

    I'm so confused with him, because he's not like any other guy I've met... He's pretty shy... Laid back... Doesn't really talk about himself much... And gets embarrassed when he does.

    I've tried to make him like me.. Lol. Yeah, that sounds really pathetic, but I have.. Like, I don't act like something I'm not... I just play "hard to get" if you know what I mean... And I mean, he does go along with it, by being the first one to talk to me or text me or anything.... But ALL these girls want him... And so I just don't know.. Grrr... Men!

    Any advice, preferably from a male, on how I can get him to tell me his feelings?

    ~BJ~

  • Brian King
    18 years ago

    "I have asked him, but he's kept his answers very vague... Basically won't tell me unless I tell him, and I'm afraid to tell him, because I'm afraid his answer would be that he doesn't like me"

    the exact same thing happened with me... we both said we liked someone but wouldn't say who after like 4 days of trying to figure it out i just staight up said "it's you i like and i didn't want to ask and sound like a retard because i know you like someone who may not be me"

    we've been going out for 2 weeks...

  • Lovely Bones
    18 years ago

    ^ That is soo romantic!! omgosh hahha.. yeah. don't mind me. I'm a hopeless romantic hehe

  • ShhhhItsASecret©
    18 years ago

    I think I didn't explain that enough.. He and I do talk, quite a bit actually.. But it's basically the if he likes me or not thing that he won't really answer.

    ~BJ~

  • SECRET
    18 years ago

    y dont' you two play a game..like take 2 paper..

    and write down your crush name...

    and do not face eachother..while writting it..

    and you said he's popular wid girls..well i hate popular ppls..they'r just too hard to get..and even if you get..to easy to lost....lolZ..

    and if you become on wid him..make sure the girls don't turn back..of you..lolZ