I want to tell her I love her but she has him.....

Is wrong to love somone who belongs to someone esle?
I mean she says Im her best friend the only guy she can turn to for a straight answer.....But lately I've been thinking we've been through so much together I shes the best and if theres one thing im sure about in this life is my love for her.....but she has a b/f and says she loves him......I knwo this is gonna piss some people off but i have tried breaking them up before....I felt so bad that I told her the truth and she hated me for a while but forgave me and asked why I did what I did I said......im sorry I didint know what I was thinking

Tell her.
Maybe if she knows how you feel, she'll understand and you never know, she could feel the same way but isn't sure how to go about it, especially since she's going out with someone. She might be afraid of your reaction just like your afraid of hers.
Don't blurt it out though, lead up to it gradually, you don't want to rush into something.
Alls fair in love and war i know. If you think something could happen between you two and it would last, go for it. But only if your sure, because since she's your friend, you want the best for her right?
Okay, i'm totally waffling on now.
Bottom line is, you seem like a nice guy who is very genuine.
So reach for the stars.
Good luck hun

Hmm, seems like a tough situation. You should tell her, but it also risks the friendship, depending on who she chooses of course. If she really loves this guy, there is nothing you can do about it. You are her best friend, so you should support her if she chooses him, but tell her. Maybe she will choose you, I don't know. Just don't lose her as a friend.

I'd say tell her. I mean if you know how you feel you might as well go for it. If you don't you could end up spending all your time thinking 'What if'. And it's always good to get things out in the open anyhow, otherwise things might get akward without you realizing. Plus she could always feel the same way. Don't blurt it out or anything like that, take your time in saying it so you say it right. And so there's no pressure on her (especially if you want to keep her as a friend) make sure she knows that by you telling her this you aren't trying to force her to make a decision on the spot, or something like that.

Tell her. If you don't let her know how you feel, you will never know if she feels the same. ^ I agree that you shouldn't put any pressure on her. You also need to be aware of the fact that you could lose a friend if you were to get involved in a reltionship. If she tells you that she loves her b/f, and wants to be with him, you should be happy for her. Regardless of her decision, you need to be a friend, and stick by her side. Good luck.

tell her exactly how you feel instead of breaking them out because she will not like you if you try to get her by breaking them up

to tell you the truth i am in almost the same exact situation. im not sure wether or not she really loves him though, i've never heard her say it. Please read "Is she the One?" (poem) and post there =-)

Let her know the truth, hun` . (:
Then maybe she`ll understand the whole thing . I was the role of the girl once, but the guy kept to himself but what hurt him most was that i was dating his BEST FRiEND . i didn`t knoe it at the time , that he had feeilngs for me so i felt so bad when i found out . She`ll understand stand, man .
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Lol Angelina.. that's putting it bluntly.. nice ;P

Ok babe, you are only sixteen years old. Trust me on this there will be many loves in your life and many heartbreaks as well.

It is always best to be honest and let the other party know exactly how you feel; tell her but with tenderness and respect.

Let het know that you are not wanting to break her and her boyfriend up but you want to explain what is going on in your heart and mind. Then continue on from there.

--Sher

U should tell her...
There is no greater pain in the world than being in love with someone who doesnt know it, or isnt in love with you.

The only way you can move past this is to tell her, and then from her reaction move on from there... maybe she loves you too... if she doesnt it, you will know ur love will always be unrequited and you can try and move on!

Its a horrible situation, You will most likely get hurt, but you'll always learn from it!

good-luck

well its all well and good ppl saying tell her but thing is when i was with my ex bf my best lad mate always wood bad mouth my ex bf and wood straight away make me turn my back on him... and stick with my ex bf! he often and still does try and tell me things well his feelings bout me.. he thinks im stupid i see the way he looks at me etc and how he gets jealous when talkin to lads... but wen i was in love with ex bf he hurt me by tryingt o split us up!
and u kinda have alreaady hurt her by trying before... thing is you can love someone but that doesnt mean they will love you back in the same way!

i no your in a hjorrible situation completely and it does hurt like amd wen u care so much for someone and they with someone else!! but in away what ever you chos eto do youll get hurt one way or another so my advice is if your sure you wanna tel her and take risk she will yurn her bk on you then you follow your heart.... but if you love her enough also yourslef you will hearl your heart and mind and let yourself get over her and leave her to be with ther bf now and if and when they split youll be the gd friend your always are and pick up the pieces again an give her your shoulder to cry on!

good luck and you gotta really listne to that voice inside your heart! listne hard enough for it youll hear it
take care

I think that if you tell her you are going to be putting her in a really awkward position. Also, you should not be trying to break up her and her boyfriend.

Just let it go, forget about her for now, and perhaps she will break up with her boyfriend someday all on her own, and if you and her are meant to happen then you will. For the time being, just be happy she doesn't hate you for what you did, and accept that you are only friends.

i think the fact of trying to break them up is a bad i dea but what would be a good idea to follow that is that you should try telling her how you feel and how much she means to you, let her know shes the one you live to see... tell her just how much you love her!

hope it helps you :)

You can love anybody you want to.

yes just let her go!!!

tell her she may love you back you never know i had a friend like you once and he waited 2 yrs to tell me and yes i had a boy friend but i still did care for him

Just like a movie, eh?

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u should tell her b cuz if u nevr tell her then it's going 2 hit ya tht u might've made one of the biggest mistakes of ur life b cuz she could've been the best thing 2 happen 2 u. so in my opinion u should tell her! u could miss out if u don't!!!