should i or shouldnt i??

i like this guy, but he is 16 and i am 20. he wants me to be with him so much. i am not sure if i want to be with him or not. i do but then again i dont. we havent seen each other in along time. but we are suppose to go on our first date this friday(13th). which is his bd. he is going to turn 17. i dont know what to do. should i be with him or not?? please help me if you can.. thanks.

IF it was my son or daughter that was only sixteen, oh wait my eldest is 15 1/2, I would be highly ticked off if a 20 yr. old wanted o date him.

He is still a child and has so much more growing to do. I advise that you not date him and find someone your own age.

Let the child grow!

My opinion...

--Sher

17 to 20 isn't such a huge gap... BUT. girls mature faster than boys, supposedly. you're 20, but he might still be as mature as a 15 year old... which could be problematic.

but more than that, if you're "not sure" that you want to be with him, then don't. would you want to be with someone who was so unsure about wanting to date you?

thanks for all youre help. i will take youre opinions to thought. i know what youre saying and i understand completely.