What things make u depressed MOST?

  • twisted reality
    18 years ago

    Hmmm...I'd have to say that when a crush/boyfriend blows you off for someone else. Like their friend or something. I know friends are important, but doesn't your girlfriend matter to you as well? And I also get depressed when your boyfriend wants all your friends to come, when you could easily just have some alone time. Alone time with each other is good for a relationship, and friendship as well. =) xoxo

    Samantha

  • SECRET
    18 years ago

    wen i' run out of money..or ma family fun out of $$$$...

  • ღ*KiM*ღ
    18 years ago

    ¦●→sammycakes←●¦ - THAT makes you depressed?? Wow.

  • HOLLYWOODxBANGBANG
    18 years ago

    A lot of things get me depressed. Even the little things, but I can't help it, when it hits me; it hits me hard.

    But, I also have to agree with Angelina, because most of us have it easier off than a lot of other people in the world. It hurts me to be depressed because I have always been really caring to those in Africa and countries over there, and I just can not see, why us as Canadians or Americans have the right to get upset over silly things. Like someone up there mentioned that they get depressed over no money. Well, there are some that don't even have money, or only have a little. People take things for granted too often in this world, and it is time we all take a look at our lives and see how well we all have it compared to dying children from third world countries who never had a chance to even live or live properly.

    -Jenna.

  • Shelly
    18 years ago

    I would have to say what depresses me is my LOVE LIFE. I have pretty much everything else under control. I'm a single mom w/ 2 boys one is 15 and the other is 11. They are really good boys..I'm divorce and almost wish I was not..I am not single material...I am in a realtionship..him and I are hot and cold...I love him more than life itself..but when we are not feeling each other yes I get very very down..sometimes don't it's hard to even get up and go to work..

  • Catherine Stephens
    18 years ago

    Just life in General

  • AGirlWorthFightingFor
    18 years ago

    guilt complex

  • Barbara Jean
    18 years ago

    the past and the memories..

  • Carrotgirl
    18 years ago

    I don't think this is a stupid thread but I can understand why some may think so. Until you have experienced depression you really have any idea what feeling depressed is like. Personally having year after year of severe back pain after a fall combined with the loss of friends to suicide. Guilt from not helping one of those friends. Falling in love with someone who could never feel the same way. Its wanting someone to the point you never sleep, you almost stalk that person but can't take it any further. Losing interest in everything friends, hobbies, family, work, sex , music everything and anything. You have whats like an overactive brain that gives you a constant headache but never solves anything other than the fact you live day by day in a numbed pointless state. You try to hide how you feel from everyone and it ends up tearing you apart from the inside. And thats about half of it. I started where you are, gone through hell and back and come out the other side with sympathy for others. You cope with anxiety and being paranoid year after year, a decade of 2-4 hours sleep a night and see how you cope. Im sorry but until you have been on the edge and lost control you have no idea. Talking about it is embarrissing but holding it inside secretly for a decade is dangerous. What I've covered is only part of the picture, but "daring to be depressed" a choice - you have no idea of what can be a terminal disease.

  • Love Panda
    18 years ago

    past memories of stupid imature mistakes..weather i want to look at them or not there always with me and always haunt me..i can never escape..present situations and circumstances, i always do stupid things (like sleeping with a guy i know has a gf) this only skrews my head up more and i get aggitated by it, stress alot about it too, but cant seem to stay away..

    mostly..looking into the eyes of my niece (3) and praying to GOD she doesnt get abused..like i was.

    october xx

  • beth
    18 years ago

    Being alone...

  • donna
    18 years ago

    Boredom

  • Dana
    18 years ago

    The thing that makes me most depressed is either thinking about Ethan (my ex) or my Papa (my uncle). Ethan , I thought, was my one true love and when he broke up with me I wanted to die so bad. My Papa died about a month ago. He was my favorite person ever.

  • Megan
    18 years ago

    i'd have to say the thing that depresses me most is seeing that ive really never loved myself...

  • Truest Lies
    18 years ago

    When I like someone, but I can see that they couldn't care less, and I just know that tomorrow I'm going to find out that they've gone and gotten a girlfriend... yeah, that depresses me.
    The dentist depresses me, because I have dentophobia... and my body depresses me, because I'm too fat.

    //T.L.//

  • Alex Marlatt
    18 years ago

    In all my life these memories have always made me feel like s**t. Being abused by my dad. My mum knowing but not helping. My sister stabbing me in the back. Family dying. Friends dying. How when my dad was dying and asked for my forgiveness and me saying "F*** off, I F***ing hate you. Just die and save us the trouble of changing your air tanks." (He died the next morning, it's been three years and I really feel like crap when I think about how cruel that was.)
    But what kills me the most is that this girl who I utterly adore, I love everything about her, I am always thinking of her, she just seems soooo perfect. Said "Alex, I love you... but just as a brother." She meant it in a nice way but that really hurt.

  • Eibutsina
    18 years ago

    Probably family life and home problems I would have to say for me. Its so hard sometimes when you love people so much, but can't stand the sight of them either lol