So there's this guy....

  • Free Spirit
    18 years ago

    who i am feelin for.... ive seen him a few times around my school, and basically he caught my eye. today however i had approached him, since i am a very daring person so i was like go to him n just say what's up ... and i did that. I went towards him n sat next to him, n was like "hey whats up?" i was sooo nervous but i did it anyway, he smiled at me n seemed to actually want to talk to me. i didn't look my best, more like what ever, but i dont know it was weird nice and scary lol all at the same time. he asked for my name n then he told me his, he asked for my b day n etc.. so we were talking... he asked to go n sit in the library to talk so i was like ok cool. we went sat in that quiet awkward situation, i mean he was pretty calm, i was more nervous than ever! ahhhh lol. i like the way he is n wa not, he asked for my number i didnt want to give it too soon, so he gave me his. n boi am i excited lolzzzz but see i dont know anything yet. he was staring at me a lot, smiling, talking very nicely like a gentleman, and walked me to my class.

    sooo does that mean he might be interested? n if so, how should i react? like not mentioning my first love etc etc right?
    what to say what not to!? cuz i like this guy n he seems like quality to me for now... so yea dont want to sound stupid.
    o o... when is the right to give him a ring? dont wanna sound desperate, but more calm n friendly first, ya'll know?

  • ABrookeD
    18 years ago

    Well it definitely sounds like he's interested. All you need to do is be yourself. Continue talking to him, and getting to know him. Don't rush into anytihng though. You should get to know him a lot better before even considering going out. As for calling him, well, don't call right away. Talk to him a few more times in person before calling him. At least that's what i would do. Just take it slow. He sounds like a sweet guy. I hope that helped a little. Good luck :).

  • Lovely Bones
    18 years ago

    Yeah I definately agree with Punksunite. Give it time. I'm kind of in the same situation lol :)

  • Free Spirit
    18 years ago

    thanks a lot!... i am quite excited n yea! hope things go well... i hope he aint a jerk... cuz he is from the hood u know? so... idk lolz = )

  • SECRET
    18 years ago

    lol/..//goody luck in ur love life gurl!...go and get him!!..:P

    p.s: if i were you..even tho i found out he's a jerk..but if he's frendly and nice i'd still go for him..for he's such a darling..lol

  • Free Spirit
    18 years ago

    haha.. yea im thinkin bout that... but yea i called him, n he was working = ( so i gave him my number, n he said he'll call, but hasn't yet! i wonder when he will!??? how long is it gonna take lol.

  • ABrookeD
    18 years ago

    lol, be patient. Guys take their time. Trust me, one time this guy had me waiting a week or two before he called. I kept thinking he didn't like me and wasn't going to call. Keep your mind off of it, and when you least expect it, he'll call. You seem really excited. Hope things work out :).

  • Free Spirit
    18 years ago

    yea im trying to be... lol i saw him again, we talked n he's really hot haha... ok so things r moving... SLOWLY but yeaaaaaa.