In Love and Confused????

  • Lovely
    18 years ago

    well I've been with the most wonderful guy for a little over 2 years now(and love him with all my heart) and for the most part everything is fine..BUT....I've recently started to have feelings for another and I really don't know what to do, nothing seems right...I mean it's not like i'm going to leave him for the other guy but I feel so wrong inside and it's eating me up inside....I know i'm supposed to follow my *heart* but my heart is not even sure where it's going...just wanted to get other ppls perspectives THANX ♥

  • Lovely Bones
    18 years ago

    Do you feel wrong liking this other guy or not being with him? Basically what do you mean by 'I feel so wrong'?

  • Lovely
    18 years ago

    I mean I feel wrong for having these feelings period....My Boyfriend dosen't deserve this....but I really can't help the way I'm feeling.

  • Lovely
    18 years ago

    I believe this is really helpful thank you!.....the thing is I can't stand the thought of breaking his heart because that is what I would do if I told him, but last night he told me that I haven't been myself and that what was wrong he asked me a number Of questions including "do you like another"? and I couldn't answer him honestly it killed me inside(I've never really lied to him like that)....and the other guy declared his feelings for me too....and I don't want to hurt him either but I know I have to make A decision I'm just gonna give it a little more time and see which way my heart mends...and if I still feel this way i'm gonna tell him.....ThAnK YoU So MuCh!!!!! ♥ i'm usually the one that give advise and help but i'm glad their is ppl who can help me too =)

  • Lauren Waszkiewicz
    18 years ago

    omfg, i hate this, i feelthe saem way, ithink about other guys, but i love my boyfriend. some of my freinds say im bored.. haha.

    good luck to ya tho..

  • Live, Laugh, Love
    18 years ago

    I understand what your going through. I think everyone feels the same way. You do have to choose between LIKE and LOVE. For me I choose Love. I wouldn't want to risk loosing my boyfriend for someone that I like and might never fall in love with. THats just me though.