What's he trying to tell me?

My boyfriend Jon has been ignoring me lately. I don't think he's meaning to but he is. I call him and he'll pick up and tells me he'll call me back. But the he never does. Then, When we do actually get a chance to talk, he doesn't say much. And when we did talk, I told him we haven't talked in a while and he told me that he's been busy, been working, and he's been down. So, I asked him what he's been down about and he tells me never mind, forget it, just never mind. And he still won't tell me what's going on. What is he trying to tell me? I'm SO confused!

He may not be telling you anything. But he could be going through a hard time and just needs someone. My suggestion is to tell him if anything is wrong you'll always be there for him and he can tell you anything. The news may not be good but that will be ok because you want to help him in his pain. Guys may not show it, but they need a shoulder to lean on too. I learned a lot from my relationship I'm still in. They may not tell you whats wrong, but just make sure they know you're there for them. God Bless. I hope everything workds out.

Why don't you give him some time and just be there with him and not try to pry into his mind

Maybe he's trying to break up with you, but he doesn't want to do the breaking up so he's acting this way so that you will break up with him... I read that out of a magazine haha. I don't know. I really just don't know..

I'm sorry to say that I agree with the person above me. It sounds a lot like what I did to one of my ex-boyfriends when I wanted him to break up with me.

Which, by the way, I feel like a horrible person for doing.