A Fiancee at 15, waiting...

  • Ms Darkin
    18 years ago

    so i have a fiancee at 15, and im waiting for him to fly back to Ca for me since he came out far to propose. what can i do to occupy my time

  • Gem
    18 years ago

    Read?
    Write poems?
    The same way you'd always act? lol

  • HOLLYWOODxBANGBANG
    18 years ago

    Well I've never thought getting engaged at such a young age was a great idea but good luck, and I hope everything works out!

    To occupy your time, try doing what you'd normally do, but just try and keep him off of your mind so that time doesn't seem to drag on.

    -Jenna.

  • Eibutsina
    18 years ago

    Live a little before you completely devote your life to sharing with someone else. Your 15, have some fun be a kid and do things any normal 15 yr old would :o) Good luck with it all xoxo

  • ABrookeD
    18 years ago

    I personally think it's wrong to make that kind of vow at such a young age. Honestly, it's seems like more of a promise ring type of thing. My friend and her b/f did that a 14. You don't need to rush into this. You have so much time ahead of you. Who knows what might happen between now and the end of high school. You might not last...

  • BrokenREALiTy
    18 years ago

    Wow, yu have a fiancee ? Dangg` .
    Well just go do what normal 15 years old do :D
    ..__MiNDYY

  • Free Spirit
    18 years ago

    thats cool, i was 15 when i fell in love with my first n only. n im 17 still in love with him, n we wanna get engaged too! the thing is he's so far! n he wants to propose n its cuz of the stupid distance. but ey good lucky = ) and all the best.

    to occupy time... o boi i could imagine* hang out with ur girl friends, and if possible talk to him over the phone. try to watch tv or go out, time will pass, eventually. and most importantly i guess just plan out ur future life!

    ~Congrats~

  • DeathsRose
    18 years ago

    I'm 17 and engaged...what you have to do i sjust go about your life like you normally would.

  • Gem
    18 years ago

    Its not bad she's engaged. I'm almost 18 and have been engaged the past year and considerig we live together and have been planning our wedding and future, its going to work out. If they love each other, it'll work, if it's puppy love, it won't.
    C'est la vie

  • Ms Darkin
    18 years ago

    ty all of you. *bows*

  • XxXYour Greatest AddictionXxX
    18 years ago

    ummm WOW you are way too young for marrage. I think people are taking the word LOVE way too lightly these days.... And may i ask how old the guy is that you are getting engaged to?

  • brittni
    18 years ago

    pretty much the most rediculous post i ever seen.
    15 and engaged, COOL. . . .
    tell all your little friends =)

  • authum darkness
    18 years ago

    Really, 15? Never thought younger than 17 would get engaged. Good luck to you sweetie :)

  • Ms Darkin
    18 years ago

    hes 15 too. we are long distance though ive know him for a While! he lives in VA and is a sophmore too

  • xTheEcstasyOfSuicidex
    18 years ago

    I have a fincee and I'm 16. As long as you know you love them it shouldn't matter. Don't you DARE cheat on him, though. That'll kill him.... Just be good, and good luck.

    xTheEcstasyOfSuicidex

  • sincere801
    18 years ago

    i have a fiancee to, we really love each other...BUT he lives in new york and i live in utah...we see other ppl, BUT for some reason no one seems to come even CLOSE to wat we have......and he tells me b4 i can tellh im how mch we cant wait to b together!!! so i wish you the best of luck!!! because distance only matters to the heart and not the mind if its true love!!!! so i hope everythin goes the way you want!!!
    if youwanna talk

    yahoo-one_love_sincere
    hotmail-good_sexy_mix@hotmail.com
    aim-mesmerized801

    EXPLAINED IN MORE DETAIL DOWN THERE UNDER GEMMA

  • Gem
    18 years ago

    "i have a fiancee to, we really love each other...BUT he lives in new york and i live in utah...we see other ppl, BUT for some reason no one seems to come even CLOSE to wat we have"

    Erm... i don't get how you can see other people if your engaged but to each his own i guess.

    But like i said before. I'm engaged and it's going to work cos we love each other and have thought it through and planned everything and have also had the help of family and friends. It's not some sordid secret.
    If you love him it will work, if it's puppy love it won't.

  • sincere801
    18 years ago

    Hey yea i kno its very wierd for us to see other ppl, and me and him talk bout seein other ppl all the time, and we both find it crazy and dont kno anyone else that has done this but doin this is more of a sure thing, like makin sure we are makin the ryt choice since we are young and already decidin to get married..get me??
    i think i explained it better this time...idk...i think so

  • Gem
    18 years ago

    Now i get you.
    It's different for me since i already live with Marcus and everything and we're sure but i can really see what you mean now.
    Since you don't see each other and live apart, you need to be sure about what your doing is right.
    I wish you all the luck in the world =)
    xxx

  • Italian Stallion
    18 years ago

    bump

  • XxFallenxFromxGracexX
    18 years ago

    wow having a fiance at 15 is extreme...hows it working out???? doesnt it feel like your giving away your life????

    Luv FallenxFromxGrace

  • Brandi
    18 years ago

    i was engaged at 15 but i later found out that i didnt love him so i cut it loose!!

    How old is He?

  • Jess
    18 years ago

    well girl i am in the same situation as u. and i am 16....Do u keep in touch with him?.....i still hang wit my friends and even guys but ofcourse i love him so much i know i wont do any thing...soo if u love him than u wont do any thing and u wouldnt put yourself in that situation for something bad to happen....so just go hang out and have fun stay intouch with your friends...and keep intouch with your your love....

  • xxmichaelxx
    18 years ago

    damn 15?

  • Daenerys Stormborn
    18 years ago

    hahahhah 15? oh god, i really want to asnwer but i just can't take an engaged 15 year old seriously. umm hang out with friends, write poems, concentrate on school, read a book, do whatever you enjoyed doing before you got engaged.

  • kori
    18 years ago

    engaged at 15. i wont judge you, but ill give you my opinion.

    Is this the BOY you want to spend your entire life with? Are you absolutely, positively sure that when this boy changes into a MAN that you'll still want him. Everybody changes, what's going to happen a few years from now when he changes from a boy to a man and you to a women? You don't know what he'll be anymore, and neither will he.

    My opinion is to get married after college (if you go to college.) Get married when you already have your feet on the ground and don't need to rely and depend that much on another.

  • BECCA lessTHANthree
    18 years ago

    wow.. 15 is a little young to be getting engaged.. but thats realy not my place to judge.. so while your waiting just have fun being 15 and try to be independant while your waiting.. hang out with your girlfriends a lot and just enjoy it.. being a teenager is LOADS of fun if you ask me .. so just go crazy and have fun (well not too crazy lol)

    *i kind went off of topic and ahh idk if i helped at all but w/e i hope i did