Confused in the head..and the heart, of course.

Alright. My boyfriend, we've been together for a while. Since January 10, 2005. I was always convinced I loved him. But today I feel like I don't even like him at all. Is that normal?

Also, he's completely convinced himself he's absolutely in love with me, and I know it would completely break his heart if we broke up. I once asked him if we'de still be friends if we broke up, and he started crying. That scares me.

Most of my friends are his friends too. They started out his friends though and I know they'de take his side in heartbeat. I dont wanna loose all my friends.

What can I do? Help?

Well if you do not feel the same way about him anymore, it is not fair to him or yourself to stay with him. You have got to do it sometime and the longer you wait, the harder it's going to get. As for friends, I am sure that there are plenty of other people that would be there for you as well. And if they are true friends, they wouldn't take sides. A break up shouldn't involve people taking sides, it should be between the two that were in the relationship regardless of the situation.

Anyways, good luck. And I hope everything works out for you.

-Jenna.

I don't really have a lot of advice to give you, but it's good to remember that just because you don't FEEL like you love him, it doesn't mean that you don't. Give it some time, and in that time you should definately know what your feelings are before you do something you could regret. And I also agree with what Jenna said; if your friends were true friends, they wouldn't leave you to take his side. That's pretty immature anyways.