&& im just not ready.....

ok so last time i checked i was single lol, however i still have my eye on a guy who i think i have moved on from. This guy is like 20 and im bearly turning 16. i liked him A LOT, but one thing ruined my relationship.....SEX duhhh lol. im not ready and he soooo is. i feel like every guy i meet now is only in it for the sex. even the recent guy a met says he wants to wait, but he still talks about doin stuff. i need major advice in how to deal with this dilema i have. any advice would be greatly handled =]].

Majority of teenagers are losing their virginity at a younger age. Why? Because the media invokes the idea of having sex. The term sex sells, well yeah, it does sell, but the auidence that loses out from it, are the ones that are not ready for it. Now, back to my point. Most guys nowadays see sex as a pivot point for growing up. The only way you can avoid it, is by saying no. The girls usually blame the guys for it, but really, the girls agree to it, so they are to blame as well. All you need to do, is say no. Tell them you will only do it when you are ready. For any guy. If they force you, leave them. You shouldn't be pressured to do something you are not ready for, or you don't want to do. Take care and good luck.

thanx =]]