from a guy to any girl

most of the topics here are posted by girls and many of them are about broken relationships so what's the deal? listen girls i am a guy and i know that is men don't care too much about girls they are like foxes they trick their victims to take what they want then threw them out. they think that girls are like toys if they find a new one they left the old. i know not all of them like this because i am not but most of them yes. so if you ever expirience a broken relationship believe me it's not your fault and don't trust any guy. with love adel

Yeah its kinda funny even how most guys end relationship even with same words...

I definitely understand what you're saying. Not all guys are like that, but most are.

From a girls' point of view, men are worse . But in reality, we`re both the samee . For some reason, I feel like girls are more ... ionno the word for it . I have some girl friends that always 'steal a guys' heart' and then breaks it all just for fun .
I know guys that do the same , but I know that not all guys are the same . I have home boyiees that are so much different than girls think most guys are, but they nver seem to find love .
I guess us girls are just attracted to the jerks and heartbreakers ? But the 'lucky ones' find the guys that are different .
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True, however there are girls who use and manipulate guys that love them. It can work both ways, dont forget that

so what do you say to a relationship going down the drain b/c no i wouldnt...ya know

i dont understand them... why do they have to be such jerks? some of them any way... not gonna mention ne one in here cuz im new and dont know any one...if i had offended you, im sorry

maybe i should just quit speaking...

ok... i think i offended some people in here... im sorry

Strange, that recently one of my friends, who is male, got his heart broken by a woman... oh well. It works both ways, except that men are more quiet about it, while women rave for months or years... hehehe, yeah, I'm a girl, and when it comes to topics of the heart, I write forever. I guess girls are just more emotional.

//T.L.//

thank you Debbie because my main point is that you need to be careful

@ OP, I beg to differ. Some guys are awful, but then some girls are too. For your information, but me and my bf are decent guys, grip and complain but are you not trying to manipulate the gals too by telling them you arn't the same? What is that? Surely it's not a grab for attention because you're 'not the same'.

I've seen it before.

Wraith

like, hmm? every-one makes a really intresting point, but i don't think it is ever the dumpeds fault really! coz like one of my x-s i dumped because he was too 'clingy' and it was kinda my fault because if i had told him that that was the reason i dumped him, then mabe he would have changed! and if i told him now i don't think he would believe me!!

You have a good point there Esther. Human Beings in general are a coniving and manipulative species. While htis is not ture of everyone, because there are ALWAYS exceptions, that really is the a general human trait. But if everyone was more open and careful about how they articulate certain things then perhaps there wouldnt be as much trouble.Communication is a huge part of whether relationships work or not. If you can't communicate well with your partner then odds are its not a good partnership and won't be until peopple learn to communicate well with each other.

I myself am not like that. Most of my friends aren't either. We think that that type of behavior is disgraceful and utterly wrong.