&& I just can't hate him.

For everything this guy has done and put me through. I just can't hate him. We were seeing each other, and he told me, he didnt want a gf because he was just too busy with Uni and work, and that he still liked me and wanted to see me. We did see each other and it was going on for nearly 3 months. I liked what we had. It was special and even though I wasn't his gf, I didnt mind because being with him, was just nice enough.

We slept with each other and everything really. Its more of the fact now, he wants to end it all. He doesnt want to lead me on and stop me from finding a decent guy, but I don't want any other, I want him.

He's really upsetting me, because he's been saying to my best mate, that all he wants is sex and he doesnt want a gf and I think he's trying to get me jealous because hes asking her for it . She's disgusted but I can't think why, hes changed so much.

Before, he was sweet, caring. Even gave me a cd and a letter to tell me how he felt and it was really honest and nice, I don't think he lied.

What is the point? I really miss him but I dont think he cares anymore

You shouldn't put all your hopes into someone that won't do the same for you. If he doesn't care, then forget about it. Yeah, it's easier said than done, but you have to try. If you keep yourself attached to him, you're only going to get hurt more. Don't think about the what ifs, just leave him, and move on. You will find a decent guy, you will be happy. It just takes time and effort. Take care and good luck.

Feelings change. His have changed towards you, and your eventually will too. The easiest way to get over him is to stop hanging around with him. Is he the first guy you slept with? I do not know your age and that is a retarded question but I just wondering. Many times, I have known my friends to become emotionally attatched to the guy they shared their first time with.

For now, he seems to not care about a relationship. He wants to focus on his school and work and you have got to respect that. A girlfriend may add stress to him, and if that is what he wants is just a bunch of one night stands and no strings attatched, let him. You have got to let him go. Staying with him will just make it harder for you to move on.

Once you release all of those feelings that you have towards him of more than a friend, you should be able to move on and realize there are better guys out there for you. And then, it'll be easier for you to be friends with him and nothing more. Good luck.

-Jenna.