How Do I Get Him To Notice Me?

hey, i'm 14 and a freshman and i have a crush on a senior. my first question is, is he too old?? i think hes 17 so thats 3 years but this is the only year we would have together. well back to my original question. i know him bc we are both in competition band which is a group of like 50 people. he is really nice and funny and cute. He looks at me a lot but how do i get him to really notice me? besides just making eye contact all the time. what should i do? is he too old to even be thinking about this? please help. thanks.

-sam

If you are making eye contact all the time, it sounds like he has already been noticing you. What level do you want to take this to next? Just talking one on one? ... phone calls? ... hanging out? ... more? Maybe he is a little shy but someone has to take the initiative.

Also, would you parents be OK with you seeing someone of this age? If not, and if it is likely to be a subject of major conflict, it may not be worth the consequences.

I agree with goldenknight...be cautious about startin a relationship like that because older guys sumtimes take advantage on younger gurls alot in highschool...

Yeah bear in mind what those guyz are saying but I think you should start by giving flitacious yet inocent smiles when he looks your way and maybe a cute lil wave like those popular girls do in movies or wateva. I think lik when you move your fingers up and down...lolz the way im explainin this sux! i hope you know what I mean. And remember, dont try to hard coz thats just a major turn off. Good luk

sounds like he knows you exist....