what should i do!!!!

it's been 6 yrs. since we went our seprate ways i'm married w/ 4 kids but my child hood love is always on my mind. i ran into him in the mall and we talked for awhile but when we was about to go he kissed me and gave me his number now i don't no what to do.!!!!!

You have moved on. You are married, have children. You never forget your first love (if that was what he had been to you). So, either throw his number away and forget him; or, call him and hang out as friends and nothing more. I wouldn't though, you don't want to mix feelings and wind up hurting your family.

-Jenna.

forget about this guy! your married. being with him as friends will only send mixed messages to your husband.

Toya,

Its a tough situation but at the same time its a no brainer girl and you know that deep down. seeing him has stirred up alot of old emotions and feelings and has made you feel young again, its taken you back to your childhood and its THAT feeling you miss not the feeling of being with him...

technically there's a reason ya'll supposedly went your separate ways and the cards you delt was getting married and having four kids... i dunno if one person can change all of that

It's a bit late to decide that you want to get back with this guy, so just be friends with him. If complications arrise, deal with it. You 'moved on' which isn't your parteners or kids fault. Don't do something you'll regret is all I'm saying

if you think this man will get in the way of your marrige and your relationship with your kids, then you should think this over. if you want to remain friends with him and continue a friendly relationship, then go for it. If you and him want to meet up, then you should inform your husband where and what time your going/coming home, and don't lie about it. It's probably not worth your 4 year marrige and your kids. =) good luck.