my love issues...

so i liked this guy like a year ago..but a bunch of stuff happened since then and all of my friends hate him. i have recently been talking to him online alot and i really like him but i cant tell anyone bc theyll be mad at me. i hope someday i can tell my friends how i feel, but now im just not ready.

If they get mad at you for having feelings for someone, they aren't true friends. They will appreciate and understand your feelings if they were. However, I do not know what he did to make them hate him, but still...true friends will understand.

-Jenna.

Whos dating him you or your friends? Your friends should support your decisions regardless - not judge you

thanks girls..im glad to see that more people feel this way then i think..well see what happens..

if they are true friends, they will be happy that you are happy, not try to make you miserable! Remember that! it definately helps!

If they`re true fiends, they`d support you . Someo f my friends hated the guy I was going out with before, but they stood by me because I liked him and he liked me . Friends aren`t suposed to keep yu&&the guy yu like apart .
..ღ__MiNDYY

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Just remember that your friends are probably are just trying to protect you from harm, don't hate them for it.... you always need a friends' shoulder to cry on, in the end.

why do u care what your firends think?? do something for yourself not for what other poeple will think of you! you like him tell every one if they hate you for love then so what!!!

Okay. Don't get me wrong, they SHOULD be happy for you, and it really isn't their place to tell you that you can't date someone.

However, according to your profile you are 14, and at that age you need your friends. The chances you will get into a lifelong relationship at this age is slim anyways, and it's not worth throwing your friends away for.

If this guy is "the one" for you, then it will work itself out eventually.

Oh, wow. Sorry to hear that. I went through the exact same thing with my boyfriend. We were together, and then we split up. All my friends were happy because they all hated him. And then about 3-4 months later or so we got back together. At first my friends were all, "Ew, why'd you do that?" And they obviously didn't approve of the situation.

So. What you have to do to get them to..."not hate" him, is to prove to them that you really love this guy and that nothing can stop you guys from being together. But you also gotta let your friends know that you love them too, and that you don't want to lose friendships over your guy.

I showed my friends that our love was for real, and now they've stopped and they respect me and my boyfriend's love. They just had to understand that me and him were serious about it this time, and I wasn't just planning on dumping him again.

Hope it all works up hun. ;]

aww, im really sorry to hear thta you are going through something like this. but if they are really your friends then they should be happy for you regardlessof what they think of him. Friends are supposed to be your shoulder to cry on, not someone whomakes you feel like you cannot tell them things. my advise would be "if you like this person, go for it babe, after all,.. he is goingto make YOU happy... no one else!"
take care and all the best
kirsty xx

ok so i ended up telling my friends that i had feelings for this guy. and most of them were ok with it because they had gotten over what he did. so everyone was rite! they do accept who i like! and trust me, if their ok with me liking HIM, theyll be ok with me liking ANYONE...

i think maybe it would be a good idea if you tell your mates before they find out or someone else tells them. they will be more angry and upset if it came from anyone elses mouth but yours. there your friends and although they may hate him, they love you so they should understand you and be happy that your happy thats how i see it!!! takecare mel xxx

I think your friends have to accept that he isn't that bad of a person, and if you really love him, then they SHOULD be supportive. It's their responsibility to be acceptive of their fellow friend and her guy.

//T.L.//

If my friends didnt like or accept the guy i liked, we wouldnt be friends, there not true friends if they get "mad" at you for liking someone. so if i were you i would tell them when i was ready. :-) good luck

its you who is dating the guy not them and if they were true friends they would accept it and not make you feel as though you shouldnt be doing it.
they may still hate him inside but they shouldnt show it to you.
and if you like him so much then get with him its your life do what you want with it they may not be impressed but if it makes you happy then they should be too =]