Greater Age Difference...

Long story short... I fell in love with a girl as she did the same with me... When asked of her age everyone would say 15 or 16... At the moment I was 17... She was very mature and looked as though that would be her age... We were together... Then the words out of her mouth came... She said she was only 13 and her birthday was in April... Mines in march... Now I'm 18 and she 14... But i just can't get over her... She broke up with me because of black mailing that was place on me... But I told her about it... And that the reason we broke up... I wanted revenge... But only fell back in love with her... We love eachother very much... But the age keeps shooting down our bridge of connection... Now I'm going off to school, yet she wants me to return and marry her... She wants me to be her first... She wants me for alot of reasons... Yet I feel as though i would be taking away her life for she wouldn't experience things anyone else would normally... I want her... But I'm too confused... All my poetry is based off her... What should I do?

look if u really love her u shouldn't let age be a factor to ya'll......i know u want the best for her but apperently ya'll both want each other so why don't u go for it!!

Age is just a number, and it really bothers me how the law gets involved with that. If you love her, you should be with her. She seems to feel the same way about you as you do for her. I agree with you that she can not really have the chance to experience stuff with anyone else first, but she seems to want to experience with you. I wish you the best.

-Jenna.

Forgot to mention... Her mom thinks i want her guts... If you know what i mean... And she uses that against the reason i was so nice to her...

p.s. It was cold... I gave her my jacket when her mom told her to come inside and get a coat...

Mothers get in the way too much. Ech. You got to be with her carefully then I suppose, if the Mother is against it, she WILL do anything to stop it. Giving a girl a coat when it is cold out is a nice thing to do yes, but it doesn't mean you want to get in her pants - if that's what you meant.

-Jenna.

Four years isn't too bad. If you love her, four years shouldn't be a big deal. If it was 8 or 10, i'd say that's crazy. Her mom is probably just worrued because a lot of guys your age are interested in only one thing.

My friend was dating a guy 18, and she's thirteen. Personally, I don't approve just because the guy was a jerk, but if she's really there for you, go to school first, sort out your head, and put things on pause. She should understand.

I suggest moving on. She is way too young for you to be messing around with at the moment, and at such a young age the chances are slim that she is going to be so in love with you when you both are older and mature enough to have an actual relationship. Sorry, best wishes to you.

I think thta if you truly love her and if you really feel that you are taking away form her life, then you should wait until later. When you're done college and so is she, I think that's the perfect time. But everyone's different. Only time will tell.

Age doesn`t matter if yu truly lov eher, unless yu were some old a s s guy and she was the age she was now . Look, i`m 13 . Like last year, me `nd this guy really liked each other A LOT . so much, that we were willing to call it love . He`s 19 now . See the difference ? A lot of people didn`t approve . But my parents loved him, and so did my friends that kenwh im . He thought i was 16 because i`m considered so mature for my age . he felt that if we got together, he`d be taking away something from me . so we decided to wait . our feelings stayed strong for SO LONG, but we never ende dup getting together .
what i`m trying to sey it, if yu love her, don`t let age get in the way . but ask her what SHE thinks . the best time tho, is probably when she`s in college .

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Like Jenna said, age is only a number. That shouldn't stop you guys from going out. It shouldn't. I use to think age was a big deal, but I don't believe that anymore. If you love her, try to fix things and win her back.

My aunt is 10 years older than my uncle (she is 53 and he is 43) but I know it is different being 18 and 14 but if y'all are meant to be together than it will all work out!

You're better off out for now fella. You made a very wise choice in getting out when you did.

If you still feel the same when she's of legal age then go for it. Some things aren't worth going to prison for, especially at your age.

Plus you ahve college coming up with any luck.