hurting for hurting

im with a guy who im not into but he adores me, im hurting because i have to hurt him by telling him that i do want what he wants , i just dont want it with him!!

how can i get over this feeling?

october xx

whenever i'm feeling down and want to cry, i turn to my huge teddy bear named "big ben" or ben for short. it might sound silly but he's my BEST FRIEND, and i got him as a gift from one of my close human friends. I tell him everything, anfd he's my best friend because i know he won't tell anyone my secrets or talk about me behind my back, and because i know he won't forget about me or ditch me. He's my comfort, and i really think you should use a huge teddy bear as your comfort. c'mon we even sleep together every single night! i mean sleep next to eachother...haa.

if this guy really does adore you, he should respect your decision that you like to do what he wants, just not with him, and if he doesn't like it, kick 'im to the curb!

Stop leading him on Darling! It won't get ya anywheres. You have got to tell him that you are not ready for a relationship yet and it would be best to stay friends, and maybe something can happen when you're ready. Just, don't lead him on.

-Jenna.

well if it was me i will just tell him because u leing to him aint making things better and if he finds out by someone else he is gonna be more hurt so just tell him

this is for u

Theres never a right time to say good-bye
you think about it over and over but when the day come u back out
you tell him u love hhim to make him feel good
you hug and kiss him to make him happy
but u aint happy your self
you wanna tell him its over but u are afraid of what he might do
at night u cry and cry because all you are doing to him is lieing to him
so all you are gonna do is try to fall back in love with him