i want to but i cant

i want to be in a relationship, a commited one, but i cant..i, not ready for one and it freaks me out!! alot!! since ive always just had fun or been the other woman ive had no experiance with being in a commited relationship..

i do want it but im too scared and confused, that what if i had it but let it go because i was scared and confused!!??

i desperately want a normal love life, help!

october xx

You have spent too much time being the other women and just messing around. You have no real experience with love. It is time that you tell yourself over and over again what you just said - that you WANT it. You have got to overcome being the girl that was there just to mess around with, and besides, that's not a very fun role is it? I mean, you are just pretty much being used by the guy...and if his girlfriend ever found out - she would be heart broken! You have got to think about what you are doing Dear.

-Jenna.