Whats she trying to tell me...?

Okay. There is a girl at my school that I like. We talk via email and whatnot, and at school sometimes. For some reason, I get really nervous around her at school, and I just cannot go up to her and talk. But on emails and stuff, it's all lovey-dovey. I'm not sure what to make of it. I have written poems for her before, and I tell her I love her all the time, and she sends that back... I've never told someone I felt like that before, and she is always saying "I love you", "You're SO cute".. That sorta stuff, but I have gotten one of her friends to talk to her, and she said she didn't have a crush on me?. Im considering asking her out, I just don't want things to get weird if she says no. Is there a way to show her that I reallly like her (I'm pretty sure she already knows). What's going on...any girls care to explain this behaviour?

Wow, this is a little confusing.

I think what you need to do first is get up the courage to talk to her at school and in person. If you're not able to do that then I'm guessing there are going to be some problems if you ask her out, even if she says yes.

It's hard to say how she feels for you, she could see you as a friend, or she could just be shy about how she is feeling towards you (as you are to her). You will probably have a lot clearer perception if you spend some time with her face to face-- not just emails.

Perhaps ask her on a date, just casually? Just a suggestion, best of luck to you. :)

what u really need to do is talk to her
msybe she told her friend she dont like u because she maybe think u dont like her and dont wanna feel stupid
so if i was u i will go talk to her and tell her your self from your mouth before another man comes and take her away
i hope everything goes well

Okay, the thing you need to do is talk to her. Most girls don't like it when guys say they like them, but can't even confront them. The guy i used to like did the same thing to me. He could write his feelings down in notes, and tell my friend things, but when it came to confronting me, he never did it. It really pissed me off. If you want a chance with her, you need to talk to her. Tell her how you feel about her, and ask her if she wants to hang out sometime. You can't just avoid her. If you keep doing what you're doing, she'll lose interest.

If her friend says she doesn't have a crush on you, then don't ruin it for you too. If you're such a sweet guy like you sound, she'll come to see that soon enough. Either that, or she's embarassed, but girls love to be lovey-dovey, even if they don't have a crush on the guy.

You need to talk to her. Tell her how you feel and be completely honest with her and make sure she understands exactly what you are saying. You guys flirt a lot so she could like you, maybe she just does not want to admit it. Some girls are shy that way. She may like you, she may not like you. But you will never know for sure unless you talk to her.

-Jenna.

Thanks all. I can see a common theme here. And tomorrow my talking efforts start. I will keep you all posted, thanks again :).

i guess she's trying to hide it...just like my ex, he used to be shy about it. but then i started to blab it cuz i love him to death. and then he started to get comfortable with it and we're just like happy... but now we're over. lol

Hmmmm. She told her friend (my informatn) that she likes me as a really good friend... Now, I have heard this before with girls, and my friendship usually goes weird with them. I'm def. going to tell her I like her though :) just not sure how yet...