why is he worried about me, if he dont like me?

  • Brittany
    18 years ago

    i got a boyfriend, and he came over for the weekend, he only wanted me for sex, and we got into a lil fight and he hit me and gave me a black eye, i went to school the next day, and that guy that i like Tyler asked what happened to my eye, and i would cover my eye up everythime he would look at it, and he kept asking, so i told him and he said that the my b/f needed put into place for hitting a girl, he said that i never should have got involved with him and i sould dump him. i told him that this was not the first time that i have been hurt by a guy. and he just looked into my eyes, and i could tell he was sorry for something. he knew that i liked him, and i wrote him a note, and he said that he didnt feel that way about me right now, and he couldnt get into a relationship at this time. why is he doing this, all he is doing is making me like him more and more. why is he worried about me, if he dont like me? i just want to know is, why? i really dont know what to do, i am so confused. . . . .

  • Dante
    18 years ago

    It's called GAME... Hah... Just ummm... Do the same thing he does to you except vice versa... In other words females are known for touching when flirting... So there ya go... And when you are about to get to the climax on the flirt just stop and act like you've done nothing... And like everything is normal... It'll work... And thats how you flip the switch... Otherwise, maybe he wants to seriously wait and see what you are going to do... And if you are gonna tell him what you did... Or all my info is wrong... Probally cause i'm black, and black female play alittle different from other racial types...

    Cough*?

  • donna
    18 years ago

    It sounds to me like he does like You, he just doesn't want a relationship with You or anybody else.. Doesn't mean he doesn't want to be your friend and friends are allowed to be concerned for each other.

  • HOLLYWOODxBANGBANG
    18 years ago

    Maybe he does like you and he just does not want to admit it. He could be trying to be a good friend as well. But that other guy, he does need to be put into place for that. If you do not want to have sex with him, than you don't have to. It's not his right.

    -Jenna.

  • Bret Higgins
    18 years ago

    Sounds like he's being a good friend. Boys and girls can be normal friends too, you know.

    Good friends don't come along every day, maybe you should respect that friendship for what it is now, instead of wanting it to be something that will break if you meddle with it.