my boyfriend hit me, and gave me a black eye

  • Brittany
    18 years ago

    my boyfriend hit me, and gave me a black eye, this is the first time he has hit me in the face with a fist. he is always forcing me to do things i dont want to do, he hits me a beats me for how much that his life sucks. i keep trying to break up with him but he says if i tell anyone what he does to me, and if i try to break up with him, he will really hurt me, . . . an am afraid, and dont know what to do, this has really gotten me depressed. HELP!

  • TeAr dROp
    18 years ago

    WHY FALL IN LOVE WITH A MEN LIKE THAT??? DONT BE SACRE...BE STRONG GO TELL SOMEONE...NO ONE CAN HELP UNLESS U HELP YOURSELF FIRST!!!

  • donna
    18 years ago

    ^You can't help who You fall in love with.. He is trying to control You by saying he will hurt You more if You leave him.. If You don't leave him You will get hurt over and over and over again, I know this because I have been through it and the beatings just get worse.. However scared You are of him You have to get out of the relationship. If he is threatening You go to the police, that way if he does do anything it will be on record that he is violent and they will deal with it. The chances are he won't do a thing once You've left, but if You tell someone at least they will be able to keep an eye on You and make sure You are safe.. Good luck ;] xx

  • Carrotgirl
    18 years ago

    It hes like this now imagine what your life will be like in the future, your not a punch bag....... dump the arsehole.

  • melly xx
    18 years ago

    listen girl, if he ever lays another finger on you, call the police right away. he has no right to touch you. no right to force you to do anything you don't want to do. DUMP HIM RIGHT AWAY, tell your parents what's been going on, if his mom isnt like him, tell her what he's been doing, and tell the police. seriously, i've seen things like this in the magazines i read.
    the guy threatens to hurt the girl more if she breaks up with him, and he eventually kills her.
    DO NOT WAIT ANY LONGER.

  • ABrookeD
    18 years ago

    Alright, you NEED to tell someone. No guy has the right to treat you like that. He's not only abusing you physically, but verbally as well. He can't force you to be with him. Don't you let his threats scare you. Tell someone and dump him. Get the authorities, and your parents involved. Get a restraining order if you must. I'm sorry that he hurt you like that. I hope things work out..

  • Eibutsina
    18 years ago

    One word brit. GO.

    He wont ever change not for you or any other woman please dont end up in hospital like I did to realise this...