CAN FIRNEDS BE LOVERS?

  • TeAr dROp
    18 years ago

    I DONT KNOW BUT I LIKE MY BEST FRIEND...HE IS ALWAY BEEN THERE FOR ME...AM SCARE TO TELL HIM I LIKE HIM B/C HE MAYBE DONT WANT TO BE MY FRIEND ANYMORE B/C I LIKE HIM!!!GOSH I LIKE HIM SO MUCH I CANT TELL HIM AND IT HURTS WHEN HE TOLD ME HE LIKE ALL THESE GIRLS!!!...HELP IF U CAN

  • Bret Higgins
    18 years ago

    I'd advise against it, it'll end up in tears. You're fifteen, serious friendships are vastly more important at your age than boyfriends or girlfriends.

    If you dated and it went wrong (as these things so often do) what would happen then?

  • BrokenREALiTy
    18 years ago

    Well if he goes tellin` yu all these girls that he likes, then I highly go against telling him . I like my best friend for two and a half years. When I todl him after two years, he ignored me for about 7 months . Yurs could end up the same way . So idk .
    I mean ... Some friends, if they date and it goes wrong, they kan stey best friends still, but others ... It doesn'`t always work out that way, yah` feel me ?
    ..ღ__MiNDYY

  • PygmyPuff
    18 years ago

    Im telling you from COMPLETE EXPERIENCE that it wont work. I was like best friends with this guy forever, like we said "i love you" before we hung up the phone and everything, we were inseparable. Then one day he asked me out and I thought he was joking but he wasnt so i said yes. We went out for 6 months to the day when I broke up with him because I felt that we were losing our friendship. (see we were becoming more physical, and less personal. Like wed meet to make out, and we never talked) So we went back to just friends. We thought we had survived the friends->dating ->friendship but it was just the beginning. Once he got a new g/f he still talked less to me until finally we didnt speak at all. When we tried to talk it was akward because we had grown apart. Finally he started telling people things I had told him in confidence to his other friends. (So of course I told the proper authority and got him suspended for harassment). Its brutal I tell ya. Brutal

  • TeAr dROp
    18 years ago

    YEAH I FEEL YOU...

  • Truest Lies
    18 years ago

    What's a firned?