R.I.P Happy 9/15/04

this guy that i'm really really good friends w/ died from suicide on 9.15.04 and i really can't get over it!! i feel really bad becuz i talked to him the day before this happend and he was very upset at the fact that his dad was making him move out of the district and he was just really pissed off at the fact of his divorced parents. i didn't kno that this would all lead up to his suicide, i thought it was just the tipical gettin pissed off at yur parents. but it wasn't!!!! i can't get over that fact that he is gone, really gone, everyday at school i'd always walk in the doors hoping to see his face again but i know that will never happen sadky. I really need help and advice to get over this loss!!

R.I.P jake " happy" McGeorge
forever you'll be in our hearts!!

i wrote a small poem for him and i would be more than happy if you could check it out and rate it and possibly comment on it. it's under "R.I.P Happy"

hey im really sorry to hear what happened but hun you just need to move on and accept what happened you cant change the past but you can affect the future so even though he's gone you'll still remember and love him but stop living in the past im sorry if i affend you but im just saying what i feel

much love Em

ps if you need any advice or need someone to talk to email me miss_invisible179@hotmail.com

My sympathy goes out to you, Jenny, for your loss and for the grief over your friend. And sorry for him. Family problems and breakups create such a huge ripple effect of sorrow and despondency.

The closest person in my life was murdered some years ago when he was mistaken for a cop in the course of a robbery. It suddenly turned my life totally upside down and I still feel the loss now, although I learned to deal with it. There are two books that helped me to get through the deep inner torment I felt and to re-start my life. One was *When bad things happen to good people* by Harold Kushner. The other one was *How to survive the loss of a love* by Peter McWilliams. The latter book is now on the web and you can access it or print it for free at:
http://www.mcwilliams.com/books/books/sur/

I hope this helps and I wish you all the best. ---Lydia