giving up on love for a new one?

  • Olivia
    20 years ago

    i dunno how many ppl are gonna read this, but yeah. im lost. i was dumped like 6months ago and i think he was my first love and now i am lost. i think i am ready to move onbut im scared this new person has no feelings or if i can have feeling for him. what should i do

  • Bryce Ellner
    20 years ago

    Ive been out of a relationship about 6 months as well and I also have a new crush, so I can relate. I plan just asking her strait out, and if she says no, then hey, there are always more chances in the future. As for you having feelings for that person, you'll never truly get rid of the feelings you had for your ex, but you will eventually learn to ignore them. Just don't start talking about your ex in front of them or say something like "my ex used to say that.." cause that will make them unconfortable. Other than that, just follow your heart. If it tells you that you're not ready, then you're not ready. Give it time and let things level out if you have to.

    --Bryce

  • Lexi Lou
    20 years ago

    sometimes its hard to follow your heart becuase you cant hear what its saying over you head and sometimes it has nothing to say! your heart dosnt even know what it wants!