GET OVER IT

Guys, it's been about 10 months since my boyfriend and I broke up and I havent't dated anyone since then. One of my friends asked me out and I said no. And every crush i've had in between was stopped because I still had feelings for my ex.

We were together for about 6 months and he broke up with me then begged me to get back together with him for about 1 month then he dumped me for my friend. He was my first everything and I understand that and I was basically his first everything too...but why has it so much easier for him to move forward?

He's gone out with about 3 girls since we broke up...none of them were serious but, at least he's dating. I would love to date too but, I don't really like anyone. He's smoking and drinking now...he's definetely not the person I was in love with so it's not like I still love him...but, why is it so much harder for ME to move on? How come he moved on so quickly? It's been almost a year!! Someone please help me!!

I know how you feel, my guess is (not knowing your full circumstances) that you need some sort of closure to the relationship, and that you havnt been able to get that for whatever reason, i may be wrong. And also, im sure he was able to date again, but he was probably useing them to get over you.
Me and my gf (now x) were together for 6 almost 7 months, and she was my first everything and she meant the world to me, and then we broke up over some stupid argument, and i just couldnt get my head around it, and we were about to get back together when she started dating sum guy, that was 1 week n 2 days after we broke up, n i was still in lover with her 6 months after we broke up, n she had left the country, n i talked to her one time on the net n we talked n it gave me all the closure i needed to get over her n move on.

I hope i helped, sorry if i didnt, if you need any help feel free to email me - stoned_monk@hotmail.com

Ben

Thanks Ben. I'll email you soon. I guess, it's just the fact that he got over it so fast that really gets me...you know, it's like, Am I THAT easy to get over?

i know how you feel (sorta) i dated a guy and lovedhim and we borke up but still wrote love poems to eah other then he write me a letter saying how much he loved me the next day he has a g.f then he tells people he only used me to get to my friend then he starts fratizising with my best friend and she starts cheating on her on again off again b.f who is like a bro to me and i am mad at her becuase she knew my stance with him and she hurt someone who is like a bor to me and he dosnt even know it and i "cant" tell him.....

so much for 'teen romance' huh? Aren't these years supposed to be the best years of our lives? Nothing seems to ever go right...

lol, in some ways its so tru what u just said, but in others i think ur wrong, i mean, when you look back in a few years, u will think, yeah, the end hurt, but the beggining and the middle meant so much more to me then the end, and it was worth it, like now i look bak on mine n my ex's relationship, n i think, yeah, sure, i loved her n i got heart broken, but it was worth it, it hurt, but it was still worth it in the long run. "it's better to have loved and lost than to have never to have loved at all".
Ben

I know how you feel. Yeah. my ex moved on like a week after we broke up!!! i know he never loved me because of that.. im still not over him.. and its been about 3 months since we broke up.. i think its just harder for girls all around to get over it. we fall harder and deeper then guys do normaly.. i dont know what else to say.. i just know you never fully get over your first love.. i had to put it on the back burner so that i could get on with my life..