I DON'T KNOW WHAT TO DO!

Personally, I'd choose family. There's no telling what could happen with your boyfriend. He could be gone by tomorrow, or as soon as January comes. But family will always be there.. at least I'm pretty sure, but then again I don't know your whole situation. Sorry I couldn't be of much help :/

I think you should stick with your family... I mean, boyfriends may come and go, if you catch my drill... And if you have a strong wish to stick with your boyfriend, and you chose to do, and you break up, what will you then do?

i no how you must feel i was in a similar situation not so long ago. i loved my boyfriend so much just like you do i left my family and my home behind i don't no why but something told me he was the one an i couldn't let him go. your family don't always no whats right for you and if you love this guy then girl you go for it follow your heart. he may leave you in a few months time but everyone makes mistakes and if he loves you just as much he'l be there for you every step of the way. your family might be against you right now but trust me there always be there to pick up the pieces no matter what ther'll always love you even if they don't show it xxxxx sorry if it is long but your story was the most touching an it relates to me xx if you ever need me for nefin give me a shout x

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Do your parents hate him that much? My friend snuck behind her parents' back and went out w/ her b/f. But they have recently broken up (not b/c they snuck around, some1 else got involved, he cheated, she hates him....)

Family is important, but so is your boyfriend to you. That really is a hard decision to make. Follow your heart. It will lead you in the right direction.