is it ONLY me?

AHHH my mom is really pissing me off!

She allways makes plans for me: your babysitting then, your doing a clinic here" and she NEVER askes me first if i had plans, or if i even wanted to do it!

How can i make her understand that i want to be able to do what i want and make my own plans. I do say i'm old enough to do it! BUT its been going on forever!

AUGH!

leave notes on the fridge. "mom, entering poetry
contest Sunday-need to edit -rewrite" love Madison
one-on-one basketball game? winner gets choice?
challenge your parents to an activity that you
meet eye-to-eye. you cant outrun they'r lectures.

No you're not the only one. My mother is rather controlling as well. I can't do anything about it though... I'm only 15. I just can't wait to move out =)

Nicely said

thank you everyone for the advice!