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20 years ago
I don't think he is playing. It is very natural that one can't forget their first love. Even if your first love was at age 5..it's hard to forget.
I guess he is not totally cured from his last break up. HE committed this relation a bit soon. Thats why the memories of the past is effecting him.
IT doesn't meen he is still in love with them.. He may feel a bit guilty or may be sympathic... Just help him out to figure out what exactly he is feeling.
IF i were you then I would be happy for him opening up his feelings. He didn't hide it. So he is not lying to you. He is atleast loyal with his feelings. If you really love him and you want to be with i guess you have to help him out. By not showing faces or crying when he talks about it. Give him some space. IF he wants to talk about his ex, make him feel free to talk that with you. Once he talks and finishes it..he may feel more free to be with you. If you force him to supress his feelings then the confussion in his heart may grow and he may get suffocated being with you.
I don't know whether he loves you. I think YES. But you have not said anything to prove it. So i leave it to you. You have to feel it. If you feel he has some feelings then let him free. Allow him to be your best friend. Allow him to be himself with you. Stop crying. That just annoys. sorry if i am being a bit rude. But thats a fact.
IF you love some one.. be confident in your love. Make sure that your love is not dependent on the other. Your love should be enough for both. IF you love a person in the right way then they will stay with you...forever.. Yes and you need to pray to GOD.
Take care.
Love, Trincy.
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