do you think i'm too young for him??

  • uh
    20 years ago

    hi i'm 14 and a freshman and i like this guy whos a senior and i'm guessing hes 17. do you think he is too old for me? what i dont like is that if he wasn't too old for me, he'd be gone after this year. I know him from band and he looks at me alot...what does that mean when you catch a guy looking at you all the time? so please answer that and whether he's too old for me or not. thank you!

    -sam

  • Brian King
    20 years ago

    i dont some chick said she was 17 and i'm really 14 but i said i was 16 so just go for it

  • juss an allycat
    20 years ago

    lolz, im guessing that if a guy looks at you alot heez either checking you out or their something on yah face! nah im jkn bout the last part dnt wrry! I dont think you're too young, you should get to know him better and start off as friends and see where it goes from there. Bear in mind though if heez 17 he may want more from your relationship then you may not be able to give him....yea uno wot im hinting at yeah, i hoped i help, if not my apologies! hope everythin goes well fo yah

  • Kevin J
    20 years ago

    I dont think your too young. I say go for it...if he's cool with it and you're cool with it. In most cases I think age really is just a number. I know 13-14 yo's that act more like they're 17-18 and vice versa:p. Be prepared for other ppl might say tho. I'd advise you to listen to heart over what ppl might say, but sometimes they talk so loud, your hearts words get drowned out. Just remember there's no harm in giving this a try.

    Hope it works out ;)

  • DMG
    20 years ago

    He is not too old for you as long as he respects you. Respect is important in any relationship, especially when there is a large age difference.

  • *tanya*
    20 years ago

    i dont think ur too young at all. my ex was 19 and im only 16. but just be careful, because with such a large age difference, you may be wanting different things out of the relationship, and he might want more than you're willing to give. i think you should just get to know him as a friend first, and see how it goes from there.
    good luck.. tanya xoxo

  • Unseen Exposure
    20 years ago

    MMM, just be careful. Guys don't always have the best intentions ...

  • uh
    20 years ago

    thank you so much guys. i have no chance with him so i'll just leave it at that. but thanks again

  • mrsmoore
    20 years ago

    I think in high school that its hard to have such a gap in age. But if you two really like each other and you can wait to make (like till you you are out of school) something of it than i really hope it works out for you. I hope you know what i mean. :)

  • SHYSTY23KO
    20 years ago

    Usually when a guy is looking at you, he's interested. Age is nothing but a number too! Go for it!